Religious folks, could you marry an atheist or somebody who just doesnt care about religion?

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Or does somebody absoluetly have to share your beliefs. Most people think I'm an atheist...I dont know if I agree with that but for the most part i just give zero fukks about religion and think its negatives outweigh the positives. That being said I dont care if my girl is religious as long as they are realistic with their beliefs. I dont like the type of people who view prayer as a viable solution to lifes troubles. Just don't judge me for how I perceive things or try to change me and I'm fine.
 

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good question. i am sure alot of sacrifices would have to be made in order for the spouse to exercie their religion. Like if I married a muslim for example, no way bacon is not going to be on my plate anymore.
 

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Nope

Won't be unequally yoked .

Not going to quarrl over going to church, paying tithes, or my stance on certain issues.
its just a shame that religion divides. It really does nothing more in my opinion but maybe give people some hope to cling to that life isnt so meaningless.

I mean...do yall really think that your religion is 100% correct? Somebody has to be wrong at the end of the day :heh: And if I was a gambler I'd be the farm that none of you are right.
 

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Its life.

Would you want to marry a woman who a) wants to wait for marriage b) tithes 10 percent of her salary c) goes to church and bible study etc.

If your not a Christian you would have issue with all of that.






its just a shame that religion divides. It really does nothing more in my opinion but maybe give people some hope to cling to that life isnt so meaningless.

I mean...do yall really think that your religion is 100% correct? Somebody has to be wrong at the end of the day :heh: And if I was a gambler I'd be the farm that none of you are right.
 

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Its life.

Would you want to marry a woman who a) wants to wait for marriage b) tithes 10 percent of her salary c) goes to church and bible study etc.

If your not a Christian you would have issue with all of that.
you right. i wouldnt care about bible study / church unless she tried to drag me with her. same with the kids; if they wanna go cool but dont force them. i was forced and looking back cant help but think of all the time wasted.
most christians dont wait for marriage and can be broken down quite easily :mjpls:
10% of salary though? thats where I draw the line :camby:
 

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you right. i wouldnt care about bible study / church unless she tried to drag me with her. same with the kids; if they wanna go cool but dont force them. i was forced and looking back cant help but think of all the time wasted.
most christians dont wait for marriage and can be broken down quite easily :mjpls:
10% of salary though? thats where I draw the line :camby:

nikkas paying for the preacher and his thots
 

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nikkas paying for the preacher and his thots
to think off all the money my pops probably gave to the church when his son is out here paying off his school tuition :why:

thats the kinda shyt I cant cosign. I'll worry about me and mine before I worry about some institution. It's the same nikkas complaining about taxes too that be taxing themselves with this church shyt. Unbelievable.
 

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to think off all the money my pops probably gave to the church when his son is out here paying off his school tuition :why:

thats the kinda shyt I cant cosign. I'll worry about me and mine before I worry about some institution. It's the same nikkas complaining about taxes too that be taxing themselves with this church shyt. Unbelievable.

There was this neighbor who would donate most of her check to the church:beli:

Id rather donate to a children's hospital or something...

But yeah me and mines come first
 

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See exactly.

Life is to short and there's way to many people out there to get with someone who doesn't share your beliefs.

I'd never date a Jew, m


you right. i wouldnt care about bible study / church unless she tried to drag me with her. same with the kids; if they wanna go cool but dont force them. i was forced and looking back cant help but think of all the time wasted.
most christians dont wait for marriage and can be broken down quite easily :mjpls:
10% of salary though? thats where I draw the line :camby:
 

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There was this neighbor who would donate most of her check to the church:beli:

Id rather donate to a children's hospital or something...

But yeah me and mines come first
not to sound militant but i dont think i'd ever donate to a cause that wasnt aimed to benefit black people (solely). As bad as it sounds, I'd also have to be able to see exactly what my money's being used for.

i'd rather do stuff like sponsor AAU basketball teams, programs for black professionals and stuff. If I can ever afford to one of my goals is to set up a scholarship fund for black kids going to my alma matter
 

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it would depend on how passionate she is about it.

i'm catholic.

i nearly always wear the rosary beads my great grandmother gave me for my holy communion
i have a couple of religious related tattoos
i say a little prayer now and again
i only go to church/chapel once in a blue moon...usually for family related events
the only time i really talk about religion is usually when people ask me why i wear the rosary beads.

if she was just like yeah, i don't believe in anything :manny: and it wasn't serious to her like that, then yes.
but if she was one of those ones that gets in the argument and brow beating about it then shed get the :camby:treatment.

i don't push anything religious on anybody, i feel people should believe what they believe if it helps them go about life in an easier way.
unless they chose to get into these debates/arguments with these people then i don't think you should be brown beaten or ridiculed for your faith.

if i was to marry or be serious with a woman who was an athiest she would still have to come to all the catholic related things like christenings, first communions, confirmations etc that my family would be involved in.

theres been plenty of reasons why i haven't got serious with certain women or why i won't see her anymore but religion hasn't been one of those things...yet.
 
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