Religious partners....let's talk about em.

[FukkaPaidEmail]

There is this chick I'm considering fukking with but the thing is that she is a devout Christian.She goes to church every Sunday,reads the bible every day and truly seems like she's about that spiritual life.She's the most Christian person I've ever ran into,it's kind of sexy in a way . However I'm a bit regarding religion.I'm not an atheist by any stretch but I wouldn't want insult real Christians like her by saying I'm Christian.Even though I go to a Catholic school I haven't been to church in at least 3 years. I'm in a bit of a dilemma,she's a good girl,damn near perfect from a personality stand point.A solid physical appearance but her religious nature kind of bothers me,which sounds stupid as hell .I feel like a hypocrite because I bash chicks who pass up good men for thugs all of the damn time

Have any of you ever been in a relationship in which your partner was more devout as you?? How did it work out?

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

STAY AWAY. IT WILL JUST LEAD TO ISSUES LATER. SHE WILL TRY TO CHANGE YOU.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

only once. and there were a lot of discussions regarding sex. always realize this, if the person is more religious than you are, you will always be at the mercy of their will in regards to sex, hence why i had to leave the girl eventually. what's worse is she became more religious as the relationship went on. i can't stand when people can't come to some type of mature agreement in a relationship because of some rule, especially since i consider sex before marriage not a problem. i mean, chances are i wouldn't have stayed with her forever anyways, but that issue made it much more difficult to imagine staying with her because i felt like i would have to marry her to make that issue go away. and lord knows, when you get married, a lot of other issues will come up. i'd be stepping out the frying pan and into the fire...

 

[Will Ross]

She is not real if she is talking to you. People really serious about will date someone that is also serious about it

 

[beezy]

My girl was the same way.. i turned her ass out lol.. but she still strong in her beliefs and what not.. im agnostic though.. its been a minor issue at times but we just dont really talk about it tbh.. like it doesnt matter she knows she cant change me and i dont try to change her

 

[MikelArteta]

Don't do it.
And may you be cursed for generations if you try and stray her away from righteousness.
Leave the Godly righteous ruth and esther chicks to the Godly righteous men.

Enjoy the ratchet jezebels and dehiliahs promiscuous whores

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

Don't do it.
And may you be cursed for generations if you try and stray her away from righteousness.
Leave the Godly righteous ruth and esther chicks to the Godly righteous men.

Enjoy the ratchet jezebels and dehiliahs promiscuous whores

I respect the girl too much to do something like that.That's why I'm having reservations about doing anything serious with her.I'm not about that "turning out" life.

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

only once. and there were a lot of discussions regarding sex. always realize this, if the person is more religious than you are, you will always be at the mercy of their will in regards to sex, hence why i had to leave the girl eventually. what's worse is she became more religious as the relationship went on. i can't stand when people can't come to some type of mature agreement in a relationship because of some rule, especially since i consider sex before marriage not a problem. i mean, chances are i wouldn't have stayed with her forever anyways, but that issue made it much more difficult to imagine staying with her because i felt like i would have to marry her to make that issue go away. and lord knows, when you get married, a lot of other issues will come up. i'd be stepping out the frying pan and into the fire...

That's my #1 concern to,I'm too young to be out here with a chick that is most likely a virgin and will stay that way till she is married.The chick is otherwise perfect though.

 

[Ohnoits]

I couldn't date a religious person. I'm a non-believer, and if she constantly brought up faith etc she would quickly realize that while I'm tolerant of beliefs and think that people's privacy/faith should be respected, I'm an atheist. For most people who are seriously devout, that is a huge turn off. She might even try spending all of her time trying to convert me...and that's not going to work out.

Finally, if we got married, there's no way that I'm raising my kids to be religious...so really, unless we're just gonna smash there's no point in going out. It would be a lose/lose situation.

In your case, I don't think it should be such a big deal, but religion is an important part of an individual and their life. I think you should give it a shot, you never know until you take a chance, and who knows, maybe she'll even have you going to church again and could be someone you'll be serious about in the future.

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

I couldn't date a religious person. I'm a non-believer, and if she constantly brought up faith etc she would quickly realize that while I'm tolerant of beliefs and think that people's privacy/faith should be respected, I'm an atheist. For most people who are seriously devout, that is a huge turn off. She might even try spending all of her time trying to convert me...and that's not going to work out.

Finally, if we got married, there's no way that I'm raising my kids to be religious...so really, unless we're just gonna smash there's no point in going out. It would be a lose/lose situation.

In your case, I don't think it should be such a big deal, but religion is an important part of an individual and their life. I think you should give it a shot, you never know until you take a chance, and who knows, maybe she'll even have you going to church again and could be someone you'll be serious about in the future.

Would you be able to be in a relationship with a chick if she didn't try to force her religion on you? Or is the fact that she even believes in (Insert religion here) to much for you by itself?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

That's my #1 concern to,I'm too young to be out here with a chick that is most likely a virgin and will stay that way till she is married.The chick is otherwise perfect though.

more than likely, if she likes you and senses some type of future with you, she will sleep with you, regardless of her beliefs. but, you got to think beyond that first time and think about how it will work out over time. i think the thing that really made me pissed off with the girl i was with was that i turned down advances from other women, women that would have been fine with just fukking a few times then being finished, just so i could stay faithful. so, the next time i experienced a sexually based argument, i was pretty much finished with the relationship...

 

[RhymesWell]

DON'T DO IT!!! I dated a newly religious chick and it was disaster and mayhem. We were already fukking before she got all super christian and after the fact it made shyt EXTREMELY awkward because she wanted to have philosophical talks about how we were spiting god after I laid the pipe. I'd be laying there like all at once.

 

[Ohnoits]

Would you be able to be in a relationship with a chick if she didn't try to force her religion on you? Or is the fact that she even believes in (Insert religion here) to much for you by itself?

I could probably do it...but it depends upon how religious she is...is she one of those types that is strictly religious and believes the Earth is only 9000 years old? How does she stand on social, political issues? Can we have conversations about this without it devolving into arguments or losing respect for each other?

Being devoutly religious is a lot more than just going to Church every week, reading the Bible and attending meetings. It affects every aspect of your life.

It may be unreasonable of me to expect it not to affect other ways that we interact, especially if we were to have a child, get married (discussions about a ceremony, baptism, etc...) interaction with her fams. I'm not naive to this type of stuff since my own parents are moderately religious, but I grew up around extremely religious people my entire life. I already dealt with friends trying to convert me as a kid, went to religious schools, etc and it drove me crazy. It taught me to be tolerant and I was more knowledgeable about other viewpoints, but there is no way that I could put up with that on a long term basis to keep my sanity.

It would be very hard for a woman to just keep all of that to themselves. I can't keep the deepest most important things in my life to myself. I want to share them with my girl, and she should want to do the same thing with me and feel comfortable and happy doing that. I don't believe in asking people to hide or suppress a part of themselves to make it in a relationship. I wouldn't ask her to do it for me, and I'm not about to ask her to do it.

In the end I think it's better for the both of us if I don't go down that road.

So, TLDR; No. I could not be in a relationship with someone who was devoutly religious. There are too many differences down the road that would become a problem in the long run. Aside from sexual attraction, the most important things to have in common with your girl are cultural & social values. What affects these things more than religion?

 

[patscorpio]

i had an ex that was real religious...cute thing..everything about her was innocent..for some reason that turned me on so much..but yeah talking about religion during times when i wanted to get close or more intimate than kissing was frustrating as fukk

 

[acri1]

Don't do it breh. Leave her alone. Abort mission. For real.

Trust me, it'll lead to issues later on. I'm speaking from experience. Holy rollers should only date other holy rollers.