Right girl....wrong time....anyone ever deal with this?

[KingMalik]

If I met her 5 years from now, I'd marry her the next day. Walk right down to the court house

I just got so many things I'm tryna focus on right now and my plans wasn't to meet someone whatsoever but, I did. I was planning on being selfish for a few more years, focused completely on my career and my future. Now I'm thinking how to fit her in those plans.

I been in the game long enough to know a good thing.....I know if I let it go, she won't be there later on.....she'll be wifed up in heartbeat

 

[TL15]

Pass dem digits breh

 

[Action Mike]

it happens

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Literally my life right now. A few solid long term options with chicks who have their shyt together have approached me, hell my moms coworker still trying to hook me up with her niece.

But I've seen this movie play out to many times, a nikka is a good and respectful, but if those financial ends ain't on point, shyt gets dramatic real quick.

Plan on seriously settling once I enter my 30s, plan to be financially stable for a family by then.

 

[Elle Driver]

It can be stressful if you include someone in those plans and they take off, you become successful and they feel like you've left them behind. If she can handle it, great. Don't lose out on a good thing but the gut don't lie.

 

[Ricky Church]

Get over it.

 

[Kwéyòl]

Sometimes you meet the right person for you, but outside influences

 

[Mr. Somebody]

No.

Don't spit on your blessing. It's like telling God you don't need them

 

[PeridotPuss]

I've heard that twice

I don't believe it any more - if it's the right girl make it the right time

 

[Music Fiend]

Couple ways to look at it..

1) (The way I would) Is if you arent ready you arent ready breh. Take the L. She's gonna move on and shes gonna get cuffed and ur gonna feel terrible when it happens, But as long as you are happy with your energy and focus then youll be good.

2) Talk to her about it... bad thing about this is shell hang it over your head forever and shell naturally internalize it to where she feels like you are jut keeping her around and are scared to commit.

3) Say yes, because you are just scared to say it. Life is quick, the current changes quite a bit. If youc are about her, go into it and gie it your best shot. Just know if it becomes too much to hang it up and not let your fear of losing the chick or hurting her haunt you from your goals.

 

[JordanwiththeWiz]

fukk that hoe breh only soft body beta male simps do shyt like think about bytches from the past

 

[Silkk]

This lightskin green eyed married girl at work. Cute as fukk, smell good as fukk

She keep asking to borrow my phone charger, this is normally when i would go into mode

 

[Silkk]

If I met her 5 years from now, I'd marry her the next day. Walk right down to the court house

I just got so many things I'm tryna focus on right now and my plans wasn't to meet someone whatsoever but, I did. I was planning on being selfish for a few more years, focused completely on my career and my future. Now I'm thinking how to fit her in those plans.

I been in the game long enough to know a good thing.....I know if I let it go, she won't be there later on.....she'll be wifed up in heartbeat

You sound like a bytch tho

 

[Larry Lobster]

#GMB these nikkas never learn

 

[Ceazy]

Get yourself together first breh no reason to not fulfill what you have or sacrifice to be with a chick if she's worth it she'll respect it if not then you was dealing with a bird anyway lust/attraction/love don't pay bills or build houses b