RingoTvRaw: If You Don't Embrace Polygyny, Don't Get Married

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To each it's own. Polygamy works for some and for others it doesn't. Polygamy is also very family oriented and from what I've seen works better in a community/village. My grandparents were in polygamous marriages and they were happy. A few of my aunts and uncle are in polygamous marriages.
And you're ok with the life style?
 

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This is all for ego. Any person could just stay single and do what they want. Men like this like the power over a woman. To say to her that she WILL be in a relationship with him, and he WILL be with other women. Its all ego, and very childish. This is why so many marriages fail in the black community. EGO! People not putting the children first, people not putting the relationship first. This video was stupid as fukk. Any person who thinks like this should just stay single!! Why purposely create drama?
 

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How is that demonizing? :rudy:

He's demonizing women for getting cheated on and leaving instead of accepting it as a fact of life. Get the fukk outta here.

You didnt say in your post that ladies should not deal with men that have that mind set? :comeon: :why:
 
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So basically a woman shouldn't want a divorce or end a relationship after being cheated on and a woman shouldn't mind if her man is pursuing other women while married. It is possible for a man to be loyal. It may seem rare, but it's still possible. I don't have a problem with staying loyal. Either a man is strong enough and committed enough to be loyal or they're not. This "every man will cheat" idea is garbage.
 

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So basically a woman shouldn't want a divorce or end a relationship after being cheated on and a woman shouldn't mind if her man is pursuing other women while married. It is possible for a man to be loyal. It may seem rare, but it's still possible. I don't have a problem with staying loyal. Either a man is strong enough and committed enough to be loyal or they're not. This "every man will cheat" idea is garbage.
but is your faithfulness due to not wanting other women or is it from being told that's what good men do, and to avoid hurting your partner? do you still want to have sex with other women, and if your wife(?) gave you the go ahead would you do so?
 

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but is your faithfulness due to not wanting other women or is it from being told that's what good men do, and to avoid hurting your partner? do you still want to have sex with other women, and if your wife(?) gave you the go ahead would you do so?
It's from not wanting other women. I'm perfectly satisfied (GF btw) so I wouldn't have sex with another woman.
 

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And you're ok with the life style?

For me personally I want to be in a monogamous relationship. Could I be in a polygamous marriage? Eh,it depends in the situation. Many people are against consenting polygamy due to jealousy issues. I think people who are very family oriented, open minded, and realistic can deal better with polygamy.
 
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