Secrets of sugar baby dating

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https://www.cbc.ca/passionateeye/m/...erful-lure-for-cash-strapped-college-students



The documentary features 18-year-old Valentina, a student in London who has seven sugar daddies and brings in thousands of dollars each month. Most of the men are more than 40 years old, and she says the relationships are both emotional and sexual.

“I maintain a relationship with these men,” Valentina says in the film. It’s similar to other forms of dating, she explains, except she is being “financially supported.”


Luke, 22, is a student in Nottingham who created a profile when he struggled to afford food and rent. He went on a few dates with a man in his mid-50s before agreeing to have sex, for which he is paid roughly $100 each time. :scusthov:

“Sometimes afterwards,” Luke says in the documentary, “you kind of do want to just go get back in bed and sort of curl up by yourself — just to make yourself feel better, really.”

The two examples are strikingly different: Valentina appears confident and considers the arrangements reasonable; Luke expresses shame, but he still needs the money.

“Valentina is, like, the top of the spectrum,” Sweeney says. “An elite sugar baby, if you will.

“There are extreme cases where girls have made a lot of money, but I think for the majority, it’s like Luke. They don’t really want to do this.”
 

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The documentary features 18-year-old Valentina, a student in London who has seven sugar daddies and brings in thousands of dollars each month. Most of the men are more than 40 years old, and she says the relationships are both emotional and sexual.

“I maintain a relationship with these men,” Valentina says in the film. It’s similar to other forms of dating, she explains, except she is being “financially supported.”


Luke, 22, is a student in Nottingham who created a profile when he struggled to afford food and rent. He went on a few dates with a man in his mid-50s before agreeing to have sex, for which he is paid roughly $100 each time. :scusthov:

“Sometimes afterwards,” Luke says in the documentary, “you kind of do want to just go get back in bed and sort of curl up by yourself — just to make yourself feel better, really.”

The two examples are strikingly different: Valentina appears confident and considers the arrangements reasonable; Luke expresses shame, but he still needs the money.

“Valentina is, like, the top of the spectrum,” Sweeney says. “An elite sugar baby, if you will.

“There are extreme cases where girls have made a lot of money, but I think for the majority, it’s like Luke. They don’t really want to do this.”
It just dawned on me that I read the name, Luke. :dwillhuh::dame::unimpressed::hubie:
 

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I match with them on Tinder all the time. They be like "Sugar baby seeking daddy" on their profiles. But i would think $100 is more of a hooker. Some would argue it's the same. Most of the sugar babies i know get:
  • Their car note paid
  • Their phone and light bills paid
  • Stipend for clothes, etc.
It all doesnt have to come from one person. One sugar daddy may pay for one thing and another pays for the other stuff and so on. Some give'em good ol' cold hard cash for pocket money etc. Some sugar daddies may even give them an allowance on a debit card on on a bank account they own.

Every now and then i'll swipe right on one who may not say that's what they're after but it is so i play along and see how they approach it. Last one i matched with was a cute little 25 y/o but she thought she was slick but didnt do the math. :russ: After chatting back and forth for a day I asked her how she are doing and she, like most of them come up with some BS story on some
  • Her - "i'm hungry. :noah: I lost my debit card blah blah blah. CashApp me some money to get some food"
  • Me "well dont you need your card to get the money i'd be sending you via cashapp?"
  • Her - "oh.. you're right... let me think...."
  • Me - "Well send me your address and i'll order something for you from GrubHub"
  • Her - "Oh great!!! you're so awesome!"
  • Me - *UNMATCH*
I did match with one once who came and had drinks with me and she broke down how the whole hustle works.
 
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