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Wiseborn

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I hear you.

On the subject of the stripper, she's ascended LSA. She's a master. She's here to contaminate the pool.


Desperate women do desperate things. I hope we not gon lie in here. Income inequality is rising, ppl are fukked up, women are trying to find hidey-holes. What else would you expect from women?

Yall want us strong in ways that NO OTHER WOMAN is expected to. And when we get hardened from throwing bows in the professional world, yall get mad at that too. I'm so glad I avoided all this mess by being a housewife from the beginning.
Thank you this is what I was looking to hear. Theres differences between Men and women but not that many. Swirlers and Pawgset are weird because especially in america There's still segregation Black and white culture in america is so different. So just like I can't just declare I'm pawgset after years of being around mainly Black women a Black woman can't just declare she's divesting.

But the problem is the lack of trust and the conditioning of white supremacy. Women don't want broke Men and somehow everyone thinks that white dudes got the bag like that so thinking a nikka is likely to switch up on you if you're bag focused you might assume you'd be better off with the cac.


Again I promise you nikkas are becoming passport bros looking for traditional wives, Black women from small towns in the Delta are just as traditional and choosing on Black Men as Domincans are in fact more so.

The only thing I'll give overseas over home is having a blue passport in a brown country. It's something liberating to never Fitting the description down here, It would be wonderful if Black americans linked up but that feminist choice gets in the way.
 

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Excellent post, it will be too late by the time most BM realize what's going on out here

In my experience, unless the BW is older and you're young enough to be their son or grandson where they might feel some sense of kinship with you, they don't be looking out for you like that, they're actively competing against you and looking to disenfranchise you

Yet ironically they also wanna mate guard you and limit your options with non BW while they fawn over cacs
I’ll be honest, I’ve definitely seen this before…not by everyone, but I will say I’ve seen it more with women who are a little older, not younger BW.
 

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It's healing the world while MAGA is in full effect :unimpressed:
Divesting is just dumb. It's black women propping up the same demo of men who created all of the problems they endlessly complain about, yes even the ones attributed to black men like colorism. Seeing black women choose a bear and then in the next sentence elevate white men is madness
 

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Excellent post, it will be too late by the time most BM realize what's going on out here

In my experience, unless the BW is older and you're young enough to be their son or grandson where they might feel some sense of kinship with you, they don't be looking out for you like that, they're actively competing against you and looking to disenfranchise you

Yet ironically they also wanna mate guard you and limit your options with non BW while they fawn over cacs
nikka EVERY Straight Black Man has a sense of the subtle backdooring at work of Black Men by cac's and The Right hand of white supremacy I don't want to say it but it's true.

I'll try to bothsides it as the One nikka at a time/ Token negro rule except I guess a lot of Black women (in a Black city of Black clientele) or Black gay Men is seen as one nikka.

Either way the people in those roles play the Hoppin' Mad card for massa. And they like a Trustee Shooter inmate literally shoots Brehs careers. This is what nikka talk about when they say they don't want to work for women. They say that women feel "intimadated " and they run to HR/

Auntie Black women tend to like an adopt Black Men and act as mentors (even though they rarely are) so they are generally cool especially once you do shyt like pick up heavy shyt for them or say hello with a smile for them.
 

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This is the weird space that many Black women occupy, but men don’t see/understand how it may affect us/our behavior.

Like I said before, my family is actually a patriarchy so I’ve been soft my whole life; men have protected me. But for the girls who didn’t grow up in households, families or neighborhoods like that……….:sadcam::francis:
Yes but I'd say it is a trust issue. I'd say quit and be a housewife to a Black Men.

Yes Black Men have dipped from their families (I seen a Youtube that discusses the children of famous people) and WEB Dubois daughter was abandoned by her Man.

She wanted to marry Jimmie Lunceford but the founder of the Boule wasn't going for that so she married a Teacher coach who wanted to play football and at some point he just up and left the family.

As a Poor excuse for a Black Man as that was we'll never get anywhere if we don't trust each other.
 

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@Gloxina

Look at this shyt and tell me what you think about it :mjlol:


This is designed to get you mad. Im sure the brehette just married or dealing with the cac without pretending to be on Black Love timing and a goofy posted it for clout and weirdo Black women fail to see the play.
 

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Bruh you can't make this shyt up:russ:

I know for a fact that these young Gen Z brehs are seeing this shyt and parachuting outta here lol

These women are really thinning their own dating pool tremendously
 
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