Seeing One night stands in public after? UPDATE in OP and Post #58

[Music Fiend]

Man so a few weeks back, I'm at a bar with the homies and a baddie tells me to come over and I end up bagging and smashing that night.

Everything was cool, sex was great, felt like I have her b+ dikk. I have her number in my phone and hit her some days after like I had fun, let's link again. She just said that's sounds good.


So now it's like a month later, I'm out with my boy and he starts talking to this chick at a bar. I realize one of her friends looks familiar as hell. Then it hits me, so I tell my homie, yo that's the chick I hooked up with a month back. So I grab her hand and try to talk and she goes a quick wave and smile and deuces away to her friend.

She avoided me hardcore through the night. So whose my boy was spitting game I just went around the bar. When I came back I found her talking to another dude so I hit the . My bro was like I'm going home with her friend, pull her again and she was just not having it.


This normal for a random ONS?

I mean every chicks I've bagged ONS tip has always been cool as hell and even asked for more.

UPDATE: So I ended up kicking it with my bro who pulled her friend that night, a few days after I made this thread. He;s new to moving back to the city so hes tryna build his roster. I mentioned that night cuz he was so intertwined into pulling the friend that he didnt really know what was going on. He was just like after you left, The girl you pulled the other week tugged on my arm as I was leaving with her friend and told me I better take good care of her friend and make sure shes home safe wherever they go. He was like I just shrugged her off and was like " Yo, do you know my boy music fiend? My homie I was with?" and he said she gave him a weird vibe as she said yeah she knew me... he was like "Man im telling you the way she said it, she sounded mad salty, idk what you did, but she was for sure feeling some type of way about you".

Then my boy was like, "those chicks were weird too, cuz the next day after I hit the friend, I dropped her off at her plac ein the morning when we woke up. I hit her up that night and tried to set something up." She didnt hit me back until 2 days later, "with a whats your facebook? Sorry I had a good time, but I don't remember what you look like..." when he drove her home sober the next morning. Dude was telling me he made her bust off at least twice, then she asked him to tell her a story.

So I was like wow... He was like you should hit her up, Im sure you can smash a few times at the least the vibe I got from her. So i hit her up... I deleted her number but still had the texts, so I text her... She hits me with the "Who's this"... I just laughed and told her who I was even though I'm sure she knew, and I just asked did I offend her (since we have some mutual friends) and have even since this post bumped shoulders once or twice. She just said, "Oh I vaguely remember seeing you that night , sorry I was very drunk and I was with my new boyfriend and I really wanted to avoid an awkward moment of having to explain." (My boy and I, didn't see her hugged up or anything with any other guys, rather she was very single looking, but some dude did talk to her at one point.. so we both were pretty sure it was a lie) I just said, "I see, you are very awkward." She responded but I left it at that.

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

She didn't hit you back and she avoided you all night.

The signs are there bruh. You're off the hook.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Man so a few weeks back, I'm at a bar with the homies and a baddie tells me to come over and I end up bagging and smashing that night.

Everything was cool, sex was great, felt like I have her b+ dikk. I have her number in my phone and hit her some days after like I had fun, let's link again. She just said that's sounds good--

Doesn't mean she meant it.

It's like people who don't like you for whatever damn reason, but everytime you see them you go up to em to say what's good, so they're forced to be cool cause they don't wanna deal with coming off as an a$$hole. Sometimes you gotta give people the chance to not fukk with you, if that makes sense. I may be wrong about this... you might be a different nikka and my point of view may not work for you, but that's me anyway

...or maybe she meant it and she was in the mood for some new dikk

...or maybe she gets down like that with different nikkas on a regular and you're overstaying your welcome i mean who knows

 

[Music Fiend]

She didn't hit you back and she avoided you all night.

The signs are there bruh. You're off the hook.

For sure, I just don't get why not tho? Obviously I avoided another chick problem but I kinda felt disrespected the way she played liek she aint know me?


Hell I even hd bad judgeent and hit her bareback. smh.

I woulda been cool with a hey whats up? and letting her cook. But the awkwardness of her avoidance and dramatic acting of how much she didn't wanna talk to me threw me all the way off.

Like yo, I'm not even tryna bag and you can still do you. My homeboy is talking to your homegirl, why cant we hav a random convo and keep it pushing.

 

[Music Fiend]

Doesn't mean she meant it.

It's like people who don't like you for whatever damn reason, but everytime you see them you go up to em to say what's good, so they're forced to be cool cause they don't wanna deal with coming off as an a$$hole. Sometimes you gotta give people the chance to not fukk with you, if that makes sense. I may be wrong about this... you might be a different nikka and my point of view may not work for you, but that's me anyway

...or maybe she meant it and she was in the mood for some new dikk

...or maybe she gets down like that with different nikkas on a regular and you're overstaying your welcome i mean who knows

Right but Im not texting her opr bothering her, I obviously have better things to do with other people. I just put it out there.

The weird thing is I didnt even try to pull her. She litterally was in the same group I was in, I met her, said a few words, wasnt really feeling it but took her number down nd she begged me to come over and hit it.

Perhaps I was just too drunk and gave her D- dikk. Idk. WHo would think the random chicks I talked to today would be friendlier than the chick whose vagina Ive slid in.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

For sure, I just don't get why not tho? Obviously I avoided another chick problem but I kinda felt disrespected the way she played liek she aint know me?


Hell I even hd bad judgeent and hit her bareback. smh.

I woulda been cool with a hey whats up? and letting her cook. But the awkwardness of her avoidance and dramatic acting of how much she didn't wanna talk to me threw me all the way off.

Like yo, I'm not even tryna bag and you can still do you. My homeboy is talking to your homegirl, why cant we hav a random convo and keep it pushing.

real shyt

 

[Peak]

Most likely she was embarrassed possibly her first one night stand and by seeing you it brought back unwelcome reminders?

Or maybe you just didn't hit right...

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

For sure, I just don't get why not tho? Obviously I avoided another chick problem but I kinda felt disrespected the way she played liek she aint know me?


Hell I even hd bad judgeent and hit her bareback. smh.

I woulda been cool with a hey whats up? and letting her cook. But the awkwardness of her avoidance and dramatic acting of how much she didn't wanna talk to me threw me all the way off.

Like yo, I'm not even tryna bag and you can still do you. My homeboy is talking to your homegirl, why cant we hav a random convo and keep it pushing.

I've had a lot of one night stands. Don't question why they front on you after. My personal belief is the shame of giving it up a few minutes after meeting you because they know you already had their biggest bargaining chip.

Just be cordial, say hi, ask them how they're doing and if you get a cold vibe off of it or you not interested in it keep it moving

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Op hit her with the soft noodle while drunk but he thought he beasted until she hit him with the

 

[Music Fiend]

Op hit her with the soft noodle while drunk but he thought he beasted until she hit him with the

Lmfao, this quite possibly could have happened. I was zooted bruh. So far gone. Faded.

I have never dealt with any woman, and I've dealt with many, many with whom I showed my ass and did fukked up wthing to who still speak cordially to me cuz they know I'm not a bad dude. Just slightly crazy.

I've never had a chick I personally knew play me to the left so cold like that.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Man so a few weeks back, I'm at a bar with the homies and a baddie tells me to come over and I end up bagging and smashing that night.

Everything was cool, sex was great, felt like I have her b+ dikk. I have her number in my phone and hit her some days after like I had fun, let's link again. She just said that's sounds good.


So now it's like a month later, I'm out with my boy and he starts talking to this chick at a bar. I realize one of her friends looks familiar as hell. Then it hits me, so I tell my homie, yo that's the chick I hooked up with a month back. So I grab her hand and try to talk and she goes a quick wave and smile and deuces away to her friend.

She avoided me hardcore through the night. So whose my boy was spitting game I just went around the bar. When I came back I found her talking to another dude so I hit the . My bro was like I'm going home with her friend, pull her again and she was just not having it.


This normal for a random ONS?

I mean every chicks I've bagged ONS tip has always been cool as hell and even asked for more.

You been replaced
You should of ignored her from the get go when you saw her at the club

Here my beloved brother
Hold this meek

 

[Kobe24]

Man so a few weeks back, I'm at a bar with the homies and a baddie tells me to come over and I end up bagging and smashing that night.

Everything was cool, sex was great, felt like I have her b+ dikk. I have her number in my phone and hit her some days after like I had fun, let's link again. She just said that's sounds good.


So now it's like a month later, I'm out with my boy and he starts talking to this chick at a bar. I realize one of her friends looks familiar as hell. Then it hits me, so I tell my homie, yo that's the chick I hooked up with a month back. So I grab her hand and try to talk and she goes a quick wave and smile and deuces away to her friend.

She avoided me hardcore through the night. So whose my boy was spitting game I just went around the bar. When I came back I found her talking to another dude so I hit the . My bro was like I'm going home with her friend, pull her again and she was just not having it.


This normal for a random ONS?

I mean every chicks I've bagged ONS tip has always been cool as hell and even asked for more.

Say what up fam!

 

[Music Fiend]

You been replaced
You should of ignored her from the get go when you saw her at the club

Here my beloved brother
Hold this meek

I dont htink u read clearly. I did ignore her, not even purposely, I didnt remember who she was.

It wasnt until I had a few minutes of thinking yo, I know her.... That it dawned on me. I could have ignored her from then on. But I just gave her a grab on the arm and said hey dont I...... before I could say know you she waves smiled, and awkwardly turned around and wlaked to her friend that was talking to myboy in her ear and talked to her. Left me hanging.

 

[Music Fiend]

Say what up fam!

Like txt her? lol

 

[Matt504]

Some people feel one way one day and feel a different way tomorrow, the problem in not getting to know someone before having sex with them is you have zero point of reference to compare their behavior to, maybe this was absolutely normal for her but to you it's obviously off putting because she gave you access to her body one night and wouldn't have a casual interaction on another.