Sensual/casual touch and impatience with females

[Dont@Me]

i mean, it has been a while since i have anyway, but today just solidified it.

All this waiting, questionaires, women literally giving you "scores" and tallying you up and shyt ....I just met up with this woman today and she was literally asking me questions from afar with like 10 feet between us with loud music playing (it was an outside get together) . I told her to come closer and she was just like, "i like space." Now back in my younger days, i've been in these situations and have won the chick over by persistently attempting to be more physically flirtatious, and I have almost seemingly got a case for pursuing the physical aspect. I like touch (sensual touch, ie. hugging, holding, just.....anything) but i'm just done risking my reputation by being physical with a chick who is giving me mixed signals and may or may not want it??

I understand a womans perspective and they don't want just every guy holding them etc., but the shyt just feels weird when i'm supposed to pursue you and you're standing that far away, and you ain't about to dance wit me etc. at that point, i just find other women to converse with that aren't scared of standing less than 10 feet away from me IDGAF how slow u wanna take it or how shy and coy you wanna portray yourself, imma label you as whack and too much effort because i'm not the type of nikka to chase.

Typically on dates, i'm quick to hug and throw my arm around a chick while we walkin and i kind of forget that they're not all comfortable with that. do yall feel this way too and are impatient with chicks like this? I mean, they don't owe me shyt but at the same time i don't have to stick around

 

[Divinity]

bytch ass nikka keep your hands to yourself. No bytch want your nasty ass grimy ass hands touching her. Probably type of nikka not even wash his hands after jerking off. This ain’t even a simp post. You can talk to bytches without touching them bozo

 

[Divinity]

Now back in my younger days, i've been in these situations and have won the chick over by persistently attempting to be more physically flirtatious, and I have almost seemingly got a case for pursuing the physical aspect.

You didn’t win them over. They was just hoping complying would get this potential rapist away from them

 

[The M.I.C.]

bytch ass nikka keep your hands to yourself. No bytch want your nasty ass grimy ass hands touching her. Probably type of nikka not even wash his hands after jerking off. This ain’t even a simp post. You can talk to bytches without touching them bozo

Goddamn

 

[Arithmetic]

Some of you need to learn how to be concise on here. Too much rambling. Get to the point, and make it clear.

So you planned to meet with this girl and it was a get together of mutual friends? What was the intention of meeting up there? Who is this girl to you? Is it possible your expectations of this person are too high and you're misinterpreting her desires?

 

[The Spirit Of Jack Trice]

Dear diary....

These sound like #uglygang problems. Might need to reevaluate.

 

[Dont@Me]

Some of you need to learn how to be concise on here. Too much rambling. Get to the point, and make it clear.

So you planned to meet with this girl and it was a get together of mutual friends? What was the intention of meeting up there? Who is this girl to you? Is it possible your expectations of this person are too high and you're misinterpreting her desires?

already had physical attraction, texted each other, met up in public where drinks and food were served. No i wasn't misinterpreting her desires. She just seems to be one of those "take it slow" women which, i get it, you're a female and have a right to your body and all that, but i ain't about to entertain your questionaires while you're ten feet away from me and i find the other womens conversations more interesting

Then she mean mugged me when i was vibing with other females with people who....y'kno...stand next to each other when they talk?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I met a judge on election night a few weeks ago and she was touching all on me. Touching my leg, touching my back, my hand

I'm not even a touchy feely person like that but it felt good


But i never make physical contact with anybody first. The women make contact with me

 

[Dont@Me]

I met a judge on election night a few weeks ago and she was touching all on me. Touching my leg, touching my back, my hand

I'm not even a touchy feely person like that but it felt good


But i never make physical contact with anybody first. The women make contact with me

i mean.....that's the safe route. but women also like a man that takes initiative. there's a fine line. plus, a lot of women are shy and aren't ever gonna make the first move to touch you first.

 

[Dont@Me]

Probably type of nikka not even wash his hands after jerking off.

you're supposed to?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

i mean.....that's the safe route. but women also like a man that takes initiative. there's a fine line. plus, a lot of women are shy and aren't ever gonna make the first move to touch you first.

I'm not trying to be safe. I'm just not a touchy feely person

 

[⠀X ⠀]

You sure she's really into you?

 

[010101]

she's not open*

 

[Dont@Me]

You sure she's really into you?

she's not open*

don't know, don't even care any more. I definitely know my PDA can either be very welcomed or not though

 

[010101]

don't know, don't even care any more. I definitely know my PDA can either be very welcomed or not though

yeah if she's not tryna wrap herself around you she's really just playing*