Separating a woman's sexual habits or preferences from her personality

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I've noticed some of you coli nikkas have a hard time separating the two. It's like women are judged only by their sexual behavior and that taints the rest of what they may or may not have to offer. They are either thots or wifey material. It doesn't matter what other good triats they may bring to the table. If you have a hard time separating the two, may I ask why?
 

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Can't turn a hoe into a housewife, breh. :manny:
Its not even about that. It's like to some dudes a woman is something you stick your dikk in before she is a person. I know sometimes we joke about females having no use outside of sex, but some dudes legit think like that. Another thing is the oversexualization of women in the black community. I believe this mindset helps paint a negative picture to the young ones coming up on how they should interact with women. On the flip side, there are also the single mothers that raise their sons to do nothing but please women. So there are two opposites, both with harmful outcomes.
sexual behaviors, whether male or female DOES tell you a lot about a person's character traits. There is no separating the two.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying the streams dont cross, they do. I'm just saying that if a female or male has a high body count, does that make them a horrible person? Is that a basis we should use to measure a person by? I think too much weight is placed upon it.
 
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I've noticed some of you coli nikkas have a hard time separating the two. It's like women are judged only by their sexual behavior and that taints the rest of what they may or may not have to offer. They are either thots or wifey material. It doesn't matter what other good triats they may bring to the table. If you have a hard time separating the two, may I ask why?
Many reasons

Biggie being a lot of brehs here are emotionally children... you can't expect much of them as far as maturity/insight goes.
 

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I've noticed some of you coli nikkas have a hard time separating the two. It's like women are judged only by their sexual behavior and that taints the rest of what they may or may not have to offer. They are either thots or wifey material. It doesn't matter what other good triats they may bring to the table. If you have a hard time separating the two, may I ask why?
Judge people by what they do not what they say... Actions speak louder breh

Beware bishes that say they nice girls. Last girl that fed me that line was getting trained by 2 known rappers after they came to town and kidnapped her ass for a week. I know this cuz said rappers asked for bytches and she got called up like the thot she was :dead:

She realised who I was after she fed me a few lines of bullshyt and turned red as fukk lol. This was before Easter n the thot was in the club talking bout she can't drink too much cuz of church tmr :dead: Can't imagine how many nikkaz cuffing that pawg :mjpls:
 

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Judge people by what they do not what they say... Actions speak louder breh

Beware bishes that say they nice girls. Last girl that fed me that line was getting trained by 2 known rappers after they came to town and kidnapped her ass for a week. I know this cuz said rappers asked for bytches and she got called up like the thot she was :dead:

She realised who I was after she fed me a few lines of bullshyt and turned red as fukk lol. This was on before Easter n the thot was in the club talking bout she can't drink too much cuz of church tmr :dead: Can't imagine how many nikkaz cuffing that pawg :mjpls:

I hear you, but dumb people are gonna do dumb shyt regardless of their sex. Some females make dumb ass decisions, just as some dudes do. I'm talking about judging a person just because of the fact that they like to fukk.
 

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I've noticed some of you coli nikkas have a hard time separating the two. It's like women are judged only by their sexual behavior and that taints the rest of what they may or may not have to offer. They are either thots or wifey material. It doesn't matter what other good triats they may bring to the table. If you have a hard time separating the two, may I ask why?
Most of these clowns only meet women at bars and clubs. They dont meet women where they are forced to interact with them either in a professional or otherwise platonic manner. And they always wonder why they meet these crazy brawds

Personally, im able to separate the two. I can respect a chick on a professional level and enjoy her swallowing my nut a few hours later. Probably because ive worked with some of the people i wound up dating.
 

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I hear you, but dumb people are gonna do dumb shyt regardless of their sex. Some females make dumb ass decisions, just as some dudes do. I'm talking about judging a person just because of the fact that they like to fukk.
I'm the biggest advocate for not exposing freaks. I'm no saying girls can't like to fukk it's about how they go around it. Are they cheating and lying or is it just some consensual casual sex. Very few people are mature enough to be honest with themselves and their partners about sexual needs.

I personally think if nikkaz would let freaks live they wouldn't be scared to share that ass. But most dudes find a girl like that and they feed her to the wolves rep goes to shyt. On the flip side if you're a freak don't be trying to get a man to lock you down knowing you ain't ready for that life. Individual responsibility is key. Live an honest life.
 

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I'm the biggest advocate for not exposing freaks. I'm no saying girls can't like to fukk it's about how they go around it. Are they cheating and lying or is it just some consensual casual sex. Very few people are mature enough to be honest with themselves and their partners about sexual needs.

I personally think if nikkaz would let freaks live they wouldn't be scared to share that ass. But most dudes find a girl like that and they feed her to the wolves rep goes to shyt. On the flip side if you're a freak don't be trying to get a man to lock you down knowing you ain't ready for that life. Individual responsibility is key. Live an honest life.
Yeah its like dudes are confused. They declare war on p*ssy they can't get, and shyt on p*ssy that they get or can get. I'm not even talking about foul bytches. I think they should be exposed. If you're in a relationship and you're not happy or not getting the attention you want then either try to sort that shyt out or just leave. Youre right about being honest part. It's like some females wanna let loose, but they're scared because of how they may be perceived, so they try to play both sides on the sly and end up getting caught up. The whole slut shaming thing is childish really, becuase most of these nikkas will only slut shame p*ssy they can't get... Sour grapes.
 

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You don't want a hoe kissing your mama at the picnic on Sunday bruh, or kissing your kids before school every morning.:yeshrug:

And of course on a MALE centered site, there's going to be judging of a woman's sexual history. Go to fukking Lipstick Alley, you think they aint judging nikkaz by what they do with their dikks?

GTFOH with the capin' nikka.
 

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Yeah its like dudes are confused. They declare war on p*ssy they can't get, and shyt on p*ssy that they get or can get. I'm not even talking about foul bytches. I think they should be exposed. If you're in a relationship and you're not happy or not getting the attention you want then either try to sort that shyt out or just leave. Youre right about being honest part. It's like some females wanna let loose, but they're scared because of how they may be perceived, so they try to play both sides on the sly and end up getting caught up. The whole slut shaming thing is childish really, becuase most of these nikkas will only slut shame p*ssy they can't get... Sour grapes.

Exactly, it makes no sense. The "Twitter Purge" a few weeks back made me ashamed. So many young black males with no clue whatsoever about how to treat/interact with women
 

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You don't want a hoe kissing your mama at the picnic on Sunday bruh, or kissing your kids before school every morning.:yeshrug:

And of course on a MALE centered site, there's going to be judging of a woman's sexual history. Go to fukking Lipstick Alley, you think they aint judging nikkaz by what they do with their dikks?

GTFOH with the capin' nikka.
You're not mature enough for convo. Please see yourself out.
 

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Its not even about that. It's like to some dudes a woman is something you stick your dikk in before she is a person. I know sometimes we joke about females having no use outside of sex, but some dudes legit think like that. Another thing is the oversexualization of women in the black community. I believe this mindset helps paint a negative picture to the young ones coming up on how they should interact with women. On the flip side, there are also the single mothers that raise their sons to do nothing but please women. So there are two opposites, both with harmful outcomes.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying the streams dont cross, they do. I'm just saying that if a female or male has a high body count, does that make them a horrible person? Is that a basis we should use to measure a person by? I think too much weight is placed upon it.


Your severely overrating these hoes. A lot of bytches have nothing other p*ssy. That's a sad fact.

Literally. So many bytches who have nothing to offer other than p*ssy. No morals. Doesn't give af about infidelity. Attention who're. Gold digger. No career. Selfish personalities.


These girls are bytches
 

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Sexual traits do tell u a lot about a person but the Coli male is a troll and extremist.

Most of these clowns are just here for daps and rep.
 
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