Serious discussion...Has anybody on here ever been in Love?

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Im about to hit 30.

In my lifetime, I have had 3 women tell me they were in love with me. Can't stop thinking about you, my heart races when I see you... the usual stuff.

But my response is always :manny:.

I say I love you back just to not cause problems...

But to be honest I'm not thinking about any female 24/7 or never have. I dont get mad excited when I see my girl...my heart doesn't beat...I just think.. "Damn she look good". I'm not sitting by my phone waiting for her text. If she text back cool, if not...I guess she is busy.

If I talk to her that day cool...If not there is always tomorrow.

I'm basically trying to ask is there something wrong with me or is it that way with most people. Is that more of a female thing?

Is it just because I haven't met the right person? I there some type of method or does it just happen..

I'm fully on #GMB but are you suppose to be in love when you get married or do you just marry the person because you see a descent future with them.
 

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Maybe you just ain't had a chick that made you feel that sort of way.
Also, you might not be the type of dude that gets all atwitter with chicks on some lovey dovey bullshyt.
I mean, do you really want to feel that way? OR do you feel like as if you SHOULD 'cause that's the norm for most as it may seem?

To answer your question, have I ever been in love? Eh, prolly, but to be honest, personally, I think once a chick does right by me on some non profit type shyt she ain't gaining from, just wanting to see me happy'n'shyt, I usually get a bit :wub: 'cause for a while I was used to chicks reciprocating my feelings to keep the gravy train running. The fluttery feeling I might have felt was more than likely just anxious excitement since I tend to try and analyze and make note of damn near everything in and out of my life on some perpetually paranoid shyt. I haven't found that right woman myself either to just cash out and be exclusive with either.....Eh.:ld: 10 years from now when I'm 40, maybe.
 
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