(serious thread) What are the positives of being in a relationship???

[Sonic Boom of the South]

i been in a relationship for about 7 months

the 1st one for me since 2009

over 2 of those years were spent in Afghanistan
and the rest of the time traveling off and on for work




i like this chick
she cool and all
but i dont have them feelings like that

she all in love
it is cool having her around most of the time
(she basically live with me)

but i kinda want to end this









i ran thru so many when i got back from Afghanistan last year and got tired of dealing wit a roster of chicks i didnt even like

so i decided to try to make this work with ole girl

but

this shyt is boring as fukk

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

Sex.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Sex.

i got that being single easy

 

[Arishok]

i got that being single easy

But this sex is from someone you trust that doesn't have an STD (only if they're not cheating and didn't have an STD when you first got involved with them)

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

But this sex is from someone you trust that doesn't have an STD (only if they're not cheating and didn't have an STD when you first got involved with them)

i have protected sex when im single soo


yeah going raw is good and a plus in this relationship but not to the point where it is a deciding factor

 

[Poitier]

What are the positives of having friendships?

What are the positives of having family?

 

[Arishok]

i have protected sex when im single soo


yeah going raw is good and a plus in this relationship but not to the point where it is a deciding factor

If you ask me, there is no point in a relationship unless you're trying to get married/settle down in the next few years of your life (just my opinion though)

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

i got that being single easy

Aside from that, I can't really think of anything

 

[thoushallhustle]

if it aint workin it aint workin. set her free and let her find a man that will be head over heels for her

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

I dunno breh..i kinda let girls know from the beginning when things get boring

Nothing worse than being unhappy while seeing someone.
fukk around and she gets pregnant and it gets even worse,cause now you're stuck with her boring ass..

 

[Ohene]

if it wasnt for guaranteed p*ssy most dudes wouldnt bother wifing a chick.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

What are the positives of having friendships?

What are the positives of having family?

to be honest
i am not even close with family
my parents still married and they are good parents but im not emotional about them
im not close with my sister
and i barely speak to my cousins

as far as friends--
then only people i know here are the chicks i use to smash

i dont fuk with friends from college

and army friends we dont speak much...too many bad memories

 

[dap-man]

If both people have strong feelings for each other, and get along well than that's a dope ass relationship to me.

One thing about being in a good relationship, is you can vent about real shyt to your spouse. Second thing is having someone you can share your life with outside of work, and family. It feels good to know you can open up to them about anything if you both trust each other.

Over all it's just being able to create a specail bond you don't have with people outside of a intimate relationship.

 

[meth68]

Those Cold lonely nights....

 

[Poitier]

to be honest
i am not even close with family
my parents still married and they are good parents but im not emotional about them
im not close with my sister
and i barely speak to my cousins

as far as friends--
then only people i know here are the chicks i use to smash

i dont fuk with friends from college

and army friends we dont speak much...too many bad memories

Then relationships may not be for you