and I somehow backed myself into a corner I can’t get out of that could possibly make it worse. Like I haven’t even looked at porn at all ever since my confidence left, that’s how bad it is.So deadass y’all can clown me whatever idc I just need you guys advice, women can chip in as well on getting me out of this situation I fukked up and put myself in frfr. There’s this woman who is a close associate to someone else in my immediate circle, she is attractive, curvy,outgoing and people seem to gravitate to her(most likely because of her looks). When I first seen her I immediately thought she would be one of those social media type chicks but, come to find out she’s very low key and to top it off when we met each other we find out we have so much in common that we exchange fukkin numbers.(I hate fate for this) I don’t know why the fukk I did that thinking we would just be friends when I knew that we had strong chemistry with each other. So after going out to different places together I notice I make her really happy whenever she sees me, she even admitted to bragging about how much I make her happy to other people so I know she doesn’t just see this as a regular friendship smgdh! Fast forward to today and now she’s wondering why I never bothered to go in her apartment with her or why I never invited her to my crib, so she takes matters into her own hands and wants to invite me over to hang out with her.(why me lord?) I can’t tell her no because that would be suspicious asf for a high esteem heterosexual man to turn down an attractive woman with a banging body and I know she could possibly go back and tell everyone in our immediate circle about it which would bring more attention to me. I hesitated and told her let me think about it and that’s when she tells me to not worry too much nothing serious was going to happen and that we are just going to enjoy classic soul/r&b music, get high , and talk about anime & shyt. So my anxiety slowly went away and I told her yeah I’m down….. big ass mistake because right after she sends me a text saying…. “you know you set yourself up right?*insert demon emoji*” I lol and tell her to stop playing and she responds that the true playing ain’t happen yet and now my anxiety is at high right now. I regret I ever got too close too her and I know she’s going to possibly hate the fukk out of me because she’ll think I wasted her time. I really wish I could just runaway to a farm and live the remainder of my life alone in peace. Life is a straight bytch for this mayne
Dap fish and joke all you want bro but other cats in my shoes know what the fukk I’m going through . Enjoy them daps homie
Essential - Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women You'll probably have a better shot at getting answers here... but without the root of the problem I got nothing
What happened to make you lose your sexual confidence? Secondly, I’m sure she’s aware of the effect she has on you hence the joke” “
