Shawty sent me this. What are yalls honest thoughts and WWYD?!?

What you doing Kangs?

  • I'm moving her in, stepping up like a REALZ MANZ and she don't even gotta pay bills?

    Votes: 17 9.0%
  • She can move in, pay half and bounce as soon as she gets a job

    Votes: 80 42.6%
  • I'll give her the month rent(let's assume it's $800, everywhere ain't like NYC lol)

    Votes: 30 16.0%
  • Not giving her shyt! If she leaves she leaves. Onlyfans is hiring :shrug:

    Votes: 61 32.4%

  • Total voters
    188

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Eh, 6 months isn’t a long time so I don’t really have qualms with the man not being comfortable. But, I wouldn’t continue the relationship.

Edit: it’s also a move out of desperation and not a natural extension of how they both feel their relationship is going. Of course this wouldn’t be temporary, and she should’ve taken him not offering as a sign.
 
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Honestly I'm not mad at his choice, but it sounds like their relationship wasn't that serious. Which is comprehensible since it's only been 6 months.

But me if I really like her, I'd help her out for a set period of time. Not letting her ass out. Like she moves in, pays what she reasonably can, and once the month ends we assess the situation.

Would be like a trial period. If I see she's really working to get her independence back and easy to live with, then we can extend. If I see she's getting comfortable too quick, she'd have to go at the end of established period.
 

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They've only been together for 6 months, but she could be the love of your life. She's not a jump off or friends with benefits, she's been your girl. I understand not wanting her to move in yet, if be the same way.

I'd pay her rent and keep going from there.

-Why would you have her move in then make her bounce once she finds a job? On top of that she's giving you half. That's just awkward.
 
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