Being a black man is weird because women simultaneously fear you and peg you as a bum while hypersexualizing you and expect you to be a ‘dikk on command’ alpha stereotype. The reason why I roll my eyes at women like this is because they are almost never checking for the ‘respectful’ gentleman black men types and then hit the

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when a non-black man does the bare minimum. I understand there’s a lot of brehs on pure bullshyt , but there’s so much shade thrown at black men on the straight and narrow it’s grating as fukk.
I don’t know how y’all 30+ brehs feel but I’m already sick of our reputation being at bottom of the barrel.