She going to try to put me on child support :(

[JerkPork]

Spoiler

I'll try to spare most of the stuff but basically I this girl who in hindsight didn't want to be saved 3 years ago. She was married and had 3 kids (6,5 and 4) with this dude (I don't even think they are divorced now, maybe separated?). They was also homeless on/off and as a result, she only has custody of one. (That I took care of ). The other kid stays with her own father (who she pays child support to) and the third stays with the dad's family out of state.

Fast forward, we have a kid who just turned one and I love him dearly. (He's is mine, paternity test ). I love my kid.

I purchased a house, everything is in my name so no worries there. I am a good guy, never been in trouble with the law, I grew up with both parents so I value family and I don't do drugs . When folks found out we were together they were like (You can do MUCH better) because they knew....they knew

The problem I have with her is that she goes out way to much for someone with young kids, let alone for someone in the relationship. I've seen red flags EVERYWHERE but went and ignored em. I'm sure she fukkin with other dudes.

Last month I exposed her ass to her mom because i had a feeling she had been lying to her mom about me. If folks going to put my business out there I want to make sure they know both parts of the story. Anyway she said we were done and she's moving out, cool.

Anyway 98% in this house is hers, which I don't give a fukk. It's all materials that I can buy back. They're apartment-grade anyway.

So right now I been telling her ass to pack and get the fukk out. But because her credit is so shytty and she has an eviction on her record she find shyt let alone afford it. So I'm finally giving her an date when I want her shyt out by but she want to hit me with the (, you gotta give me 30 days). She aint come home last night so I'm sure she was getting dugged out. Which, I don't care if she did since we not together, but get the fukk out first before you resume that hoe'in shyt. The sheer disrespect.

Sooo.

She basically used me as a stepping stone for stability because she thought it was going to help her get her kids back.

Now shes just hittin me with: wait till that child support kick in.

Background is in spoilers.

If she wanna get the court involved. I want full custody and I couldn't care less about getting her for child support. I make enough to support me and my kid.

She has 3 kids from a prior marriage. As long as i've known her she has full custody of one. Her father has full custody of the other and she's paying him child support. and the third, her ex's family has custody.

What are the odds of me losing, considering she has a record already?


Don't save em brehs

 

[cam>]

if she can't/doesn't take care of some of her children, that strengthens your case.

good luck on getting custody!

 

[Kitsch]

 

[JerkPork]

Damn I lost so hard. I'm trying to keep my cool and stay legal with everything I do. But she sure know how to push my buttons. At this point the only time she is in the house is to sleep, or to show her face to my son for a couple minutes before shes back out to party.

 

[JerkPork]

Damn I lost so hard. I'm trying to keep my cool and stay legal with everything I do. But she sure know how to push my buttons. At this point the only time she is in the house is to sleep, or to show her face to my son for a couple minutes before shes back out to party.

 

[Kane1]

You took an L for sure but you get custody then that L = W






Good luck brother. And don't get another chick pregnant....it ain't worth it

 

[Kane1]

Went back and read your spoiler tag....



My nikka



You took the game and fukked it all up....so many red flags off the rip but your SIMP ass drove right pass them to for this chick.


Good luck man....take that L on the chin and try to get your seed. And you better hit her up for child support, she would do it to you

Talking bout you wouldn't want child support from her burn that SIMP blood out of your body ASAP

 

[A1aaa]

basically I this girl who in hindsight didn't want to be saved 3 years ago. She was married and had 3 kids (6,5 and 4) with this dude (I don't even think they are divorced now, maybe separated?). They was also homeless on/off and as a result, she only has custody of one. (That I took care of ).

nikka... please tell me she looked like a PRIME tyra banks, megan good or rihanna to make such a decision to cuff. PLEASE. i REFUSE to believe nikkas are taking self-imposed L's like this.

 

[The BasedFather]

Play stupid games and get stupid prizes

Glad I'm not a simp.

 

[Won Won]

 

[Lord_nikon]

If she is still married to her husband , he pays child support,

I think

 

[Matt504]

$100

 

[JerkPork]

I'm not trying to sound like an elitist but she would probably still be on the streets if in weren't for me.

First time I seen her she walked into a store I was working at. She was actually an older lady, chaperoning her helping her find a job. I told em, "ya, put in a application and tell me I sent ya "

She got the job and it was maybe a year before we got together. I baught a car for me, and loaned her my paid off truck to help her get to work, but she began abusing my kindness.

When I tell you shyt didn't have shyt, she really didn't have shyt.

I fell for the okie doke.

 

[marcuz]

p*ssy game had to be crazy for u to fukk up like that.

 

[marcuz]

what race is she. im sensing a capt save a non blk ho