There are 2 conversations that needs to be had amongst adults especially us as BP.
1. Relationships outcomes do not determine if someone is a good or bad person. Just because someone doesn't fukk with you doesn't make them a "bad" person. We all have different reasons for dating. Just because your reasons don't align with another person's reasons doesn't make either person good or bad as long as you aren't a lying piece of shyt.
2. Adults should be using plan English when it comes to sex. This idea that "things should be obvious" obviously isn't to some slow people. If you want sex you need to state that. All this drama could have been avoided if a candid conversation was had. If you cannot say "sex, fukking, put me through the mattress etc" to someone you are attempting to have sex with you need to pause and get it together.
It's almost 2026. Are we still not telling each other we want to have sex and leaving it up to a "vibe"?
That's a dangerous game gentlemen. I hope we're having real adult conversations by now.


fuk is all this coming from


