It’s ingrained in women to seek external validation in a way that doesn’t come naturally to men. From the time a girl is born, she’s taught to obsess over what everyone thinks of her.
Is she pretty enough? Is she mean? Is she feminine? Is she popular? Do her friends make her look good? Do people think she’s a loser?
It’s a constant cycle of preoccupation with other people’s opinions inside a woman’s head 24 hours a day. This is why they use social media in such a compulsive, over sharing way. There’s an obsessive need to control what people think of them that most men genuinely don’t feel