Shedding light on the ugly domestic violence epidemic in the black community

[Lana del Rey]

Women

Mostly black

Like men who hit them
Its a masculinity thing

If you were a woman. Would you want a man who would walk all over ,scream at, hit, etc without him standing up 4 himself

Dont think so

Unless hes not killing her or putting her in the hospital

Putting ur hands on ur chick is required sometimes

Get the hell out of here with that

 

[Blackout]

Because not every thing pertains to you and your nerdism. There black men in between thugs and nerds. You seem to always focus on the two like thats all black women have to choose from. I understand that nerds especially blacks ones are perfect and can never do any wrong and that women who choose nerds over thugs would lead long peaceful non violent lives, but in the real world anyone is capable of anything. I don't post shyt past anyone, i don't care how thick your glasses are.

I'm comparing nerds and hood nikkas. If you want to talk about other types of black men then feel free to do so.

I'm not trying to stop you.

Yes we do know that any one is cable of anything yet that doesn't mean that certain types aren't less likely than another to be abusive.

 

[MoonGoddess]

I'm comparing nerds and hood nikkas. If you want to talk about other types of black men then feel free to do so.

I'm not trying to stop you.

Yes we do know that any one is cable of anything yet that doesn't mean that certain types aren't less likely than another to be abusive.

You know you are right. I don't know how i have the nerve to try to tell anyone what they should post. This is an open forum after all. You are not a bad poster but i guess the ignore feature is there for a reason.
Carry on.....

 

[Sauanaffe Tustunnagee]

What is this babble? One example of a middle class family having a DV issue does not mean DV is not connected to poverty. Poor people just have more DV everywhere on Earth, including among whites. DV Among black Americans is actually lower than cacs in parts of Europe, which speaks to the relative and absolute poverty rates among African Americans. A better question would be why cacs have higher DV when they have free health care, free university, etc in Europe. You should ask that question, cac.

there are far more than just this one example though....dv is an issue in the black community transcends economic barriers..stop trying to use poverty as a crutch to excuse it..last time i checked Dre didn't stop beating bw after he made millions and Chris Brown hurting financially when he fractrued Rhianna 'face.not that whites problems concern me but if the rates of dv are higher in Europe than marginalized blacks in America as you claim wouldn't that contradict your point that dv is directly tied to povertythe only difference between a poor and wealthy woman beater is the former has a harder time making bail... so you going to keep running with this whole i'm a cac thing cause i don't for women beaters that happen to be the same background as me

 

[GoldTeef]

• White, Black, Hispanic & Non-Hispanic women have equivalent rates of violence committed by intimate partners.

• Studies show that women face the greatest risk of assault when they leave or threaten to leave their partners, or report the abuse to authorities.

 

[LadySimone]

Completely ignore the fact that while I agree that they should get out ASAP, your ORIGINAL STATEMENT OF PICKING "THE WRONG MEN" DOES NOT CORRELATE.

And this woman left...and was still killed (which isn't uncommon).

Women are in the most danger when they leave.

 

[Blackout]

You know you are right. I don't know how i have the nerve to try to tell anyone what they should post. This is an open forum after all. You are not a bad poster but i guess the ignore feature is there for a reason.
Carry on.....

It's not that. Its just that nerdy black men deserve their voice to be heard just like any other black person.

It would be the same as a person denying dark skin womens voice because of their skin. It's unfair.

Every black persons voice should be heard

But hey if you want to put me on ignore then that's fine. Go be a hypocrite

 

[Sauanaffe Tustunnagee]

And that is why people advised you that domestic violence is not just a Black issue. It is a real issue among all people. White men snap and kill their wives and kids all the time. White women kill their husbands all of the time. Many of those people are just considered regular everyday people. Abuse is an every group issue.

so you are going to ignore the stats iosted which stats blacks rates are dv tops all? i created this thread cause as long as i have been paying attention i'm seeing too many and much to frequent incidents of bm savagely killing bw during trivial arguments....this stance that everyone has domestic abuse issues so we should not worry about it is part of the problem

 

[MoonGoddess]

It's not that. Its just that nerdy black men deserve a voice just like any other black person.

It would be the same as a person denying dark skin womens voice because of their skin. It's unfair.

Every black persons voice should be heard

But hey if you want to put me on ignore then that's fine.

I understand. Im a darkskin black woman but im not gonna go in every thread and try to make it about me.
I didnt know black nerds were so conceited.

 

[LadySimone]

Being a thug and a cop is not mutually exclusive. Look at all these police shootings.

You gotta try harder dude.

 

[Blackout]

I understand. Im a darkskin black woman but im not gonna go in every thread and try to make it about me.
I didnt know black nerds were so conceited.

You can make it about you if it relates to you like this topic related to me.

I am conceited about every black person. No matter if they are a nerd or dark skin

 

[Barnett114]

 

[LadySimone]

"My ex boyfriend is a thug or gangbanger"----Every black woman

those black males were resisting arrest. ----every white cop

 

[MoonGoddess]

You can make it about you if it relates to you like this topic related to me.

I am conceited about every black person. No matter if they are a nerd or dark skin

Lol im not gonna derail a thread that has nothing to do with me or about me. Maybe when im trolling here or there. If you've never beaten a woman or been a victim of domestic violence, even if you know people that have gon through it then this thread really isnt about you......I have but im still alive, but ive already mentioned it a couple of times on here, im not gonna go in every domestic violence thread and try to derail or trivialize the actual victim.

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

Get the hell out of here with that

Lets be real and not political correct