Should avg looking, homely looking, flat booty BW be put on a pedestal more?

[Neuromancer]

yeah i understand in the narcissism sense, but usually when women complain about the pedestal shyt it's because some guy is trying to give you traits of some mythical woman or a conglomeration of ideals about various women and completely ignores who you are, like objectification. sucks because once that person realizes you are just a human being and not a fairy tale, they start to treat you badly.

I don't know if I asked for this explanation. And I'm even wondering why you gave it to me. But thanks