I am going to go on a different tack with this. She accepted his proposal, she walked down the aisle to him, she gave the vows. She knew what she was marrying, and now she has the nerve to be embarassed by the man she chose to accept marriage with?
He was not fit to navigate in the world she lives in, but she wanted him all the same. That being the case, she has nothing to stand on concerning his actions. When she met him, I am pretty sure he had all of those tattoos that she is now embarssed that the people she works with will see.