Should I Move Out Of My Mum's House?

[International Playa]

I'm 27, graduated from college in July, then moved back home while I looked for a job. While I been at home I worked minimal jobs while looking for my graduate job. I finally started my graduate job 2-3 weeks ago, since it was in the same town as my mum, I decided to stay home. My mum wants to charge me more than I would pay if I lived in a shared house and put rules on the amount of times I go out. I don't have problems with helping out financially at home, however she wants to put control on how many times I can go out.

At the moment, I work Monday to Friday, I'm out most weekends, some weekends I stay over my main chick's house, some weekends I'm at the club or out with the boys. At the moment I'm getting to know another female. Potentially I will have 2 women in my team. My mum now wants to put sanctions on me and control how much I go out.

I think its time I go live in a shared house with room-mates, moving in with my main chick is not an option. She been pressuring about marriage a few weeks back, moving in will make her start thinking things


Help!!!!!!!

 

[Bay Area]

Paying rent to your parents isnt a big deal but she shouldnt be controlling how many times a grown ass man can go out. You gotta leave bruh.

 

[kp404]

You are a grown ass man, you can pay less somewhere else, and did I mention you are a grown ass man? Get the fukk outta there.

 

[the cac mamba]

I'm 27

My mum now wants to put sanctions on me and control how much I go out.

I

negged

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I think its obvious your Mom is trying to incentivize you NOT to live at home. She's basically saying that you can can home if you want but you're gonna be her bytch

 

[Larry Lobster]

If you can, leave asap

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Your moms belongs in the bushes breh

 

[BocaRear]

This thread had me rolling

nikka you almost 30 and your mom giving you curfews n shyt,

AND she charging you rent?

AND she cockblockin you?

I know you a bytch ass nikka

your mom stay putting your bytch ass in line, all while eating up your money too

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Use the opportuntiy to save up for a house.

 

[International Playa]

Use the opportuntiy to save up for a house.

Im giving her rent money same amount I would pay for my own place

 

[Ohene]

Paying rent to your parents isnt a big deal but she shouldnt be controlling how many times a grown ass man can go out. You gotta leave bruh.

This. I was gonna say stay home, save some money to build for the future. But if she on that bullshyt

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Im giving her rent money same amount I would pay for my own place

Ok then move out or ask for a discounted rate unless of course shes broke.

 

[beenz]

Paying rent to your parents isnt a big deal but she shouldnt be controlling how many times a grown ass man can go out. You gotta leave bruh.

yup, once u start paying to stay there, then all those rules should go out the window and u should be able to bring hoes home and the whole nine.

 

[Average Coli Poster]

When I was 25 I had a loft and a benz

Why are you living with you mom when you are pushing 30 breh?

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Disipling your mother