Should someone in their early 20s date someone with kids

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Yes. Date who you want to date if you are interested in them. People act like people with kids are leper’s or some shyt. What kind of idiot would I look like not dating a man I’m interested in because he has a kid.


And before y’all jump to conclusions, no I don’t have any kids. :stopitslime:
 
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Depends on a few variables like how "mature" she is, how career driven she is, what situation with baby father is like, and how disruptive or attention is her child.

For the most part I'd say no, but I know there's great mothers out there, who could be great partners. You have to look for dealbreakers like anyone else.
 

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Have to understand the reprucssians. Single moms are down to fukk and that's how they keep u around.

The main red flag is if u go on just one or 2 dates and they already wanting you to meet their kid(s) and bring them along. That means these hoes already don't give a fukk who they bring their kids around and should not be trusted.
 

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i seen a lot of dudes who do and get stuck.

try to be smart tho.
Yep me too, I know a lot of dude who started dating single mothers in their early 20's, then next thing you know within 6 months she's pregnant.....

I used to be a bit reckless myself a while back, but I'm kinda glad I dont have a kids, with any other women i was in previous relationships with. I feel like it would limit my mobility at this stage in my life. I can still easily pickup my life and go somewhere else at a moment's notice.
 
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