Shy Women Approach Men for the First Time [video]

[Lweezy]

fakkit am I ruining your post experience? Hold this neg for having a hoe's heartache online.
fukk is thread jacking?

My my my arent you the reactive coli tyrant? Put all your hatred into that neg didnt you? If you start an instagram page you might be able to satiate your attention thirst some.

 

[LebronsHairline]

However you wanna put it. If everybody waited until they went to a social event to find an eligible companion, alot of us would be missing out on a possible decent relationship

I doubt anyone is saying the chances arent better at a social event. But if you find someone interesting out and about, just let him go because you didnt see him at a social event?

If men did what she said there would be countless women out here with no man, we're raised differently so we're gonna have different approaches to things

 

[At30wecashout]

Let's be real though. There is kind of a self-defeating cycle to this argument.

The kinds of guys women would be okay approaching them in non-social events hear all the horror stories and stuff that women feel uncomfortable so they will hang back and take less shots.

The creeps and perverts who don't take no or yell at them don't care no matter how many times it's told to them it's unwanted. That's part of why they approach, they've lost all inhibition about what the other person actually wants. It's just a game.

Exactly, but I look at it the other way: Women respond to that, positively or negatively. Consider what makes them comfortable BUT don't knock what works.

If all women were a "hello" away from a good convo in a social setting, we wouldn't need to shoot 40 foot jumpers on the street to get at one. I don't do that, but I don't begrudge
a man who does that, especially if you hear women talk and dudes they have met...happened to do the same damn thing.

I observe how the lions eat, and disregard the prey. The prey aren't there to make it easy on you, no matter how nice and considerate you come off. Rejection isn't the only risk you face,
and it isn't even the worst. You might offend a woman doing relatively ordinary shyt. But the next one might find you hilariousIt is a numbers game, and women who get approached
refuse to see how in their favor the initial engagement is. I'm not attracted to most women I see(as is any normal dude), so when someone sets an alarm off in my head, I don't always
resort to waiting for the next one. She might not come around for days, weeks, or months. A woman always has men orbiting them, unless she is ugly.Of course they can "wait it out."

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

My my my arent you the reactive coli tyrant? Put all your hatred into that neg didnt you? If you start an instagram page you might be able to satiate your attention thirst some.

 

[Json]

Exactly, but I look at it the other way: Women respond to that, positively or negatively. Consider what makes them comfortable BUT don't knock what works.

If all women were a "hello" away from a good convo in a social setting, we wouldn't need to shoot 40 foot jumpers on the street to get at one. I don't do that, but I don't begrudge
a man who does that, especially if you hear women talk and dudes they have met...happened to do the same damn thing.

I observe how the lions eat, and disregard the prey. The prey aren't there to make it easy on you, no matter how nice and considerate you come off. Rejection isn't the only risk you face,
and it isn't even the worst. You might offend a woman doing relatively ordinary shyt. But the next one might find you hilariousIt is a numbers game, and women who get approached
refuse to see how in their favor the initial engagement is. I'm not attracted to most women I see(as is any normal dude), so when someone sets an alarm off in my head, I don't always
resort to waiting for the next one. She might not come around for days, weeks, or months. A woman always has men orbiting them, unless she is ugly.Of course they can "wait it out."

See the dudes I knew who were most successful were the ones who weren't flirting. That's the thing that frustrates a lot of guys who thinks it's effortless. Yeah, it kind of is.

Basically it's the NICE GUY syndrome broken down for what it really is, being a simp for a fairytale, thinking women have some third eye that will see you as their Prince Charming even if you're Quasimodo.

The truth is, guys who are successful, don't make their intentions obvious or they switch tactics in mid-talk. It's like when you open the door for someone, whether they acknowledge the gesture of not doesn't really matter to me. The gesture is part of how I treat others(friends, strangers, men or women). Guys who go into talking to women expecting a certain outcome are what turns a lot of women off. Women just like attention. They genuinely just want someone to talk to as a human, but some guys get so focused on that Prince Charming outcome they put so much of their ego on the line for that ending.

 

[Rell Lauren]

These have to be actors. I felt second hand embarrassment watching the Asian girl who is cute btw approach the guy reading the book.

Women wouldn't make it a day if they had to court the opposite sex like men do. They're not built for it.

 

[thekyuke]

lol they needed to drink just to approach....

when it comes to dating, women wouldnt last an hour in a mans shoes

This! This! This! When they accuse us of callousness and ego its basically a reaction from years of cruel and unusual public rejection. If they had to go through a fraction of the attitude and rudeness they practice I swear they'd never even leave the house!

 

[Burned Verses]

Fukk you for making me click on a buzzfeed video