Men don't want to talk for real about this. Because most are helping create the issue. Most dudes getting offered by a 19-21 year old will take the draws. Women are getting their numbers when they are younger and naive. It ain't necessarily their peer group giving them numbers. It's older dudes.
This is actually true. I know girls who were basically r@ped back in HS. Every young person thinks they know it all, but some ppl get in over their heads. The girls who had messed up home lives and drama with their parents where the ones who were targeted by older men. Because people can sense damaged kids/kids who need attention.
I’ll never forget, in HS I had a friend who tried to convince me to lose my V card after she had lost hers to some guy who was in grad school (



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Her folks had crazy divorce drama and she was emotionally neglected. Had money, but her parents were never home. Sneaking some guy who was 10yrs older than her into her home. Then she went crazy in college and got a bad rep. Sad, sad, sad.
I implore all of you to keep your kids close, be INVOLVED in all aspects of their lives and nurture them. Little girls who feel empty and unloved are big targets for perves.
It’s one thing for HS age kids to explore and experiment with each other as attraction and those urges naturally kick in, but it’s another for a grown man to swoop in, get involved with a young naive girl, and dash out of her life leaving her confused and ashamed, and possibly pregnant and/or disease ridden. Lot of grown women with horrible memories of their youth because they weren’t protected or taught how to guard themselves. The world taught them hard lessons.