Signs that women want the D

[Sauce Dab]

That arm touch and laugh

 

[Address_Unknown]

If she offers to twist your locs or braid your hair.
practically an invitation...

Only if you can sit between her legs while she does it. Had that happen once and she went on about how her boyfriend's hair wasn't as long as mine. I took that L and kept moving.

- If she bumps into you for ANY reason. Gravitational pull, quick stop on a train, misplaced step in the kitchen, grab a titty and warm it up.

- If you in a group, you make eye contact and her face changes to anything other than a screwface. Make a mental note to cut the night short and bounce before something changes her mind.

-If she contacts you to bytch about another female. Chicks normally do that with their friends. She want you to know why other chicks fake and she real (Don't think too hard on it, just smash)

-If she sings the lyrics or at least bops her head to Almost N-E Big Krit song. Lord knows, she's getting smashed.

- If she buys you a beer or brings drugs/substances of any kind, she in smash all nite mode.

-If she asks you to go to church and leans, touches or puts or hands around your elbow for any fukking reason. Lord's willin, you fukkin' after lunch.

 

[rahji]

this isn't just women but human beings in general. This guy is right...i remember learning this in a social psych class lol

They say that's how you get cool with people quickly. Match their step if walking, breathing, whatever. They subconsciously feel you are similar and more connected than you might be.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Its happened a few times, but dont notice it till its too late.

Normally youre seated next to her, either on a train or conference somewhere.
I tell now with her body language..she'll be stroking and playing with her hair, and grooming herself by looking into her purse mirror etc and reapplying lipstick and such..I was told women subconsciously do this to show you they are clean and take care of their appearance. I walk off and I notice in the corner of my eye the lady suddenly looks frustrated..

I sometimes see that as a chick fishing for compliments

 

[Ohene]

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I've seen snippets of accuracy within the jokes ( I'm partly resposible) the key is when you get a cue check it with other things to confirm possibilities.

For instance, preening has been mentioned. had an ex mention that to me and she said BUT there's some women who do that cause it's a force of habit.

things like talking to you, being in your space, letting you touch her without having a bad reaction to you are all elements of interest, compliance and what I call a proximity alert. you ever been in a space where you see a hot girl and you awkwardly hang around her trying to get an opportunity to say something? well women do it too. If someone's lingers in your space say something to do even if it's casual. women have a hard time hitting on men or showing interest but they'll sub communicate attraction and they will give you opportunities.

The type of eye contact you exchange, the type of energy between you two.. The way her eyes react, dilate etc. her body language and reaction. I've watched groups where a woman might have her body placed facing some guy and they end up together. But these things have to be counterchecked with other stuff.

I had friends who when they'd be leaving a school or area or state girls would confess they liked them. They never realised all along. so another thing is don't think it's totally outlandish for a girl to like you or be a exactly attracted. This happens every day. You might have a bigger range of choices than you realise.
I try all my possibilities so i can have the most accurate feedback of where I really stand, how things change with my energy etc. I'm the curious type so I did explore aspects of male female relationships and grew for them. At the very least it prepares you to react and court well the one person you care for like that. I glue the relationships I've gotten from being more aware and taking a chance.

i stay doing this lol

 

[Blackrogue]

They say that's how you get cool with people quickly. Match their step if walking, breathing, whatever. They subconsciously feel you are similar and more connected than you might be.

On the flip side you don't want to match negative body language. You can match someone else's body language but the goal is to tilt hers to match yours or something more positive.

I feel it's more important to watch your own body language. To be relaxed etc so when your rapport happens it's to those states you are exhibiting yourself. Whether the state is aggressive or comfortable or whatever.

I'm aware of these things but I don't go around consciously trying to do these things because they'll happen anyway with natural chemistry

 

[cyndaquil]

On the flip side you don't want to match negative body language. You can match someone else's body language but the goal is to tilt hers to match yours or something more positive.

I feel it's more important to watch your own body language. To be relaxed etc so when your rapport happens it's to those states you are exhibiting yourself. Whether the state is aggressive or comfortable or whatever.

I'm aware of these things but I don't go around consciously trying to do these things because they'll happen anyway with natural chemistry

But thinkin bout all this shyt when talking to women is what makes dudes neevius and fukk up

 

[Blackrogue]

But thinkin bout all this shyt when talking to women is what makes dudes neevius and fukk up

I don't want to dwell on this cause this is kinda a done topic to me. It's true if you over think you full up. I think the main reason is uncertainty about what comes next or what to do or where you are in the map of your relationship with that person.

If you are aware of where you are and what you do. You could consciously do or unconsciously do something and when the outcome happens you know it occurred because of a certain input. positive reaction or the opportunity to continue appeared in the form of a certain output which is what people are discussing here. The signs of what shows she wants you.

I think these signs vary and truthfully if you want to know what's a positive reaction you have to go out and meet women and hit on them and pursue them even if the purpose is purely to build a database of experience from which to answer your questions. whether you fail or succeed doesn't matter because each answers a question on what to do or not do.

of course some things people are mentioning here are universal and subtle. Some things need more than one verification step. sometimes if you are unsure just proceed with the assumption the attraction is there. All these things are variable. changes In aggression and timing etc. I think the biggest thing it's just awareness of people.

I'm almost embarrassed talking about how things are because I don't even think this is a big deal. The biggest thing if you feel you're behind the curve is accelerate your experience.

you'll be thinking less and things occur organically

 

[KingJamesXXIII]

when she touches your arm or grabs you while smiling