Signs that you're being friendzoned

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How to leave the friendzone:
Talk to other girls
stop talking to friendzoned girl about her problems
stop giving a fukk about ^

she will come :obama:

My friend's brother gave me this advice when a chick I was cool with wouldn't let me smash. That shyt worked like a charm.
 

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for all the homies who died in the friendzone
 

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The friend zone does exist, and women will even tell you that it exists.

First of all, most male and female relationships are not platonic, but are grounded. You need to understand this concept first.

Platonic friendships mean that neither party has any sexual interest in each other. But seriously, what's the chance of you going up to an unattractive woman and becoming her friend? This type of relationship only exists with people of the opposite sex that you've grown up with, and view them as family.

But for the most part, our friendships with the opposite sex is grounded. "Grounded" means that the relationship appears platonic simply because both parties know where they stand. One of them may have sexual desire, but won't act on it. One of the 3 things happen to get you in this situation

1) you tried to holla at her, and she said "No" and so you settled with being her friend.

2) you liked her, but never tried to holla at her, and so you and her became friends.

3) you did smash before and even though you want to smash again, but it didn't work out, and so you settled with being her friend, hoping to one day smash again....

It does happen on the reverse, when a man turns down a chick and she stays his friend... but it's rare.

Now that you understand this concept, you can understand "Friendzone"

In order to consider yourself in the friendzone, you must not be content with being her friend. Even if you've stopped pursuing her, if you would smash if she offered it to you, then you are in the "Friendzone". Because you're waiting for an opportunity, instead of creating one for yourself.

The way to avoid the friendzone is to be direct with your intentions, and if she declines, don't be her friend. Move on to the next chick.

Getting out of the friendzone is more complicated. It requires repairing your reputation and her perception of you. This is done, by being confident, meeting and dating other women, and being happy regardless of what she does. Most women want what other women want. If she sees that other women are all on you, she's gonna be like "well that's my friend and I kinda sorta had him first" and then she's gonna put her bid in. But then again, you're still waiting for her to make a move instead of creating your own opportunity.

I just say stay out of the friendzone in the first place.

:ucme: My nikka
 

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for all the homies who died in the friendzone

That's funny, in a way, that simp version of you is likely to die after it happens once, leaves people to go back to the lab on some





"Better than he was before...better, faster, stronger.":birdman:
 
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in high school i had a girl tell me how big some other guys dikk was :what:

talking bout he ripped me apart :huhldup: im like bytch im tryna get the puss why u telling me this thats how u know your in the friendzone :to:


I'm laughing way too hard for a Sunday afternoon :laff:
 

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Best way to avoid friend zone is to not be cool with her AT ALL, first time you come at her do it on a sexual level
yep. make it known OFF TOP that your attracted to her in a sexual way. be bold. better to be too aggressive than not aggressive enough. ive heard it out of enough women's own mouths that most like an aggressive man
 

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There's no such thing as the friendzone.

What you guys recognize as the friend zone is a woman's way of saying she's not interested in you - at all. Actually, you probably aren't even her friend if she's had to brush you off in a way that neutralizes your confidence.

So really, there's no "friendzone". Or even a "zone" for that matter. What happens to people in the imaginary friendzone is that they've gone ghost to the women they're interested in and are still delusional about some lackluster, pseudo-existent friendship.

My advice to you to never get friendzoned: don't even befriend women. It's not like it's possible to have a non-sexual relationship with a woman who you find even remotely attractive. I keep female acquaintances but I hesitate to call any of the women in my life "friends". That's why I don't get friendzoned: because I don't treat the friendzone like it exists (it doesn't). The fact that some of you cats are even able to get with these women after you've been "friendzoned" is just proof that it doesn't exist. Because if you really DID get "friendzoned", you would NOT be able to get out of it. What happened to you is likely that you made the woman you're pursuing somewhat uninterested in you with regards to how you carried yourself, but then redeemed yourself and rekindled her attraction for you.

There is no friendzone.

:bow: Unless there is a reason to be friendly(she is a colleague or a friend of your sister etc), there is no point in being friends.
 

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I agree that you shouldn't not make deals with terrorists but sh1t happens and let me tell you the friendzone is really and the worst is if she just wants to be friends after you smash and it didn't work out like wtf and means it
you should hit the eject button early and take online classes
 

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in high school i had a girl tell me how big some other guys dikk was :what:

talking bout he ripped me apart :huhldup: im like bytch im tryna get the puss why u telling me this :wtf: :sadcam:


































thats how u know your in the friendzone :to:

I don't know, they could be hinting at shyt when they do that. I friend zoned a few girls that tried to make me jealous or interested or whatever by telling me what they did or the good reviews they got.
 
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