My S/O from the midwest. First sent me a mms this morning with a pic of breakfast she made and damn it looked yummy 
, long story short she let me know midwestern women love to cook for their men but she feel uncomfortable cooking for me because she thinks I be judging her, real picky with my food and I can cook good. I told her I love her cooking but I like what I like when it comes to food. I just like normal food and stuff like she used to from being midwestern like deer, chicken gizzards, elk, snails, quail eggs and other stuff she wants me to try will have to be tried on a case by case basis or not at all. I even tried raw oysters for the first time last week. 
So this discussion led into another discussion which has resulted in her giving me the silent treatment now, I said "babe, when I ask you a question why don't you ever say YES or NO, its always hmmm mmm for YES or mmm mm for NO" . She explained that how she talk and thats how people talk from where she from. I told her I can't take her hmmm mmm's and mmmm mmm's seriously and it doesn't seem like a valid or serious confirmation or answer to my serious questions. I said I don't mind the hmmm mmm and mmm mmmm but serious questions please answer yes or no. I presented a scenario of getting married and if at the alter she would say "hmmmm hmm" for YES and she said I was being extra and reaching. She then accused me of being controlling and trying to change her and got real mad about it. She said F it and she would use YES and NO from now on and ask to not rebuke her way of communication. I pose this question to the coli, am I unreasonable with my request? She already posted a similar question on her GroupMe.
, long story short she let me know midwestern women love to cook for their men but she feel uncomfortable cooking for me because she thinks I be judging her, real picky with my food and I can cook good. I told her I love her cooking but I like what I like when it comes to food. I just like normal food and stuff like she used to from being midwestern like deer, chicken gizzards, elk, snails, quail eggs and other stuff she wants me to try will have to be tried on a case by case basis or not at all. I even tried raw oysters for the first time last week. So this discussion led into another discussion which has resulted in her giving me the silent treatment now, I said "babe, when I ask you a question why don't you ever say YES or NO, its always hmmm mmm for YES or mmm mm for NO" . She explained that how she talk and thats how people talk from where she from. I told her I can't take her hmmm mmm's and mmmm mmm's seriously and it doesn't seem like a valid or serious confirmation or answer to my serious questions. I said I don't mind the hmmm mmm and mmm mmmm but serious questions please answer yes or no. I presented a scenario of getting married and if at the alter she would say "hmmmm hmm" for YES and she said I was being extra and reaching. She then accused me of being controlling and trying to change her and got real mad about it. She said F it and she would use YES and NO from now on and ask to not rebuke her way of communication. I pose this question to the coli, am I unreasonable with my request? She already posted a similar question on her GroupMe.
