Single brehs with kids: why did you decide to leave?

[Majestyx]

what if dude wasnt ever there to begin with, so they didnt leave...it was just a nut?

what if she was with someone else when child was conceived?

 

[Ashley Banks]

yup, my granny said u dont leave a man for what he do, but leave him for what he dont do. Took me a longgggggg time to figure out what she meant. Like not all men cheat, but those that do, thats a small infraction, you dont leave him, you work thru it. But if a mf dont work, dont take care of his kids, leave. I left my husband because he didnt respect me enuf to keep his bm under control. Cuz we had just moved to a new house and this bytch knew where I stayed to come key my car. Nope, not gone be able to do it.

-____- my dad's sister tried to tell me some shyt like that & my dad told her to stfu and stop trying to make me be miserable like her.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

-____- my dad's sister tried to tell me some shyt like that & my dad told her to stfu and stop trying to make me be miserable like her.

and I was sooooooo miserable . But I got to thinking about my granny didnt take her own advice, she had 4 husbands. I mean I can understand sticking by ur husband thru thick and thin, but being a stewhead? Nah. And she got mad when I divorced him. Then when she met my new husband, she was like u see how god works? She was prolly nutty too.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

I have an older sister that hates me to this day because of what happened between my dad and her moma. Even after my dad's untimely passing, I tried to reach out to see where our relationship was, sister-wise, but to no avail. Now my other sister I'm cool with. Papa was indeed a rolling stone but he was good to my mother and me and that's all that mattered

 

[beenz]

of course. we are best friends. she got retired that angry black woman shyt 2 years ago. she was a kid back then

i could slide in that p*ssy when ever i want. but i dont like too cause she is dating someone who makes her happy

so do you do it or no????

 

[mcdivit85]

and u may never will. I was taught u dont divorce ya husband no matter what, you supposed to stick it out, but after that bytch keyed my car, I was done. Fucced up I know

Stayed through cheating, beatings and pregnancy with another woman

Left when a chick keyed the car

Peace

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

That's crazy

Those men weren't shyt back then



I remember at my granddad's funeral, my mom met about 3 or 4 half siblings and one of them was her age and the others were same ages as her younger siblings.

 

[Yinny]

Stayed through cheating, beatings and pregnancy with another woman

Left when a chick keyed the car

Peace

Yeah I don't understand that shyt. Those things are automatic gtfoh. The type of person I am, I would be completely miserable with a partner like that.

Speaking of cheating, my grand pops used to cheat on my gma(rip) with his cousin's best friend. I met her a few years ago(they still kick it) and she was staring at me hard, lmao. I wonder if my gramps still sliding in that, his new wife lives down Souf.

 

[Vado]

so do you do it or no????

Check the time stamp of the text

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Yeah I don't understand that shyt. Those things are automatic gtfoh. The type of person I am, I would be completely miserable with a partner like that.

Speaking of cheating, my grand pops used to cheat on my gma(rip) with his cousin's best friend. I met her a few years ago(they still kick it) and she was staring at me hard, lmao. I wonder if my gramps still sliding in that, his new wife lives down Souf.

I didnt wanna be a single mom to 3 sons, he was a horrible husband but he was a great father and I tried to stick it out for them because thats how I was raised. Never said it made any sense.

 

[Yinny]

I didnt wanna be a single mom to 3 sons, he was a horrible husband but he was a great father and I tried to stick it out for them because thats how I was raised. Never said it made any sense.

Eh, whatever floats your boat. A lot of people put up with varying forms of abuse (physical, emotional, etc) out of fear of certain unknowns, you aren't the first, only, or last. Just glad you worked it out.