Your opinions are not facts. Nor does your statistic help your case. Who is murdering black men? Is this same [who] also impacting black women as well? Does it impact them in the same way or different ways?
Dismissing issues that women face does not lead to unity. It leads to false unity and that leads to being conquered because it's only going to be brushed under the rug for so long. Attitudes like yours is why you are seeing these very angry and militant women popping up and calling for war. Most women will be put off by it, but then they come across so many like you and it starts to change their perception. Unfortunately, it often goes to a very unbalaced state which is not ideal either.
Both forms are unbalanced - complete denial combined with excuses, deflection, and coddling and the other side which wants full on war, put their heads on a damn platter.
There is an issue, you can either address it in order to bring healing, ignore it while adding condescension and let the pot fester, or just opt out completely and focus on higher levels.
But go ahead, continue that same old, same old. Always late, never prepared, full of excuses. Cycle repeat in full effect.
I am just observing, I'm not in it.

Good day.