So brehs, I finally cut off my ex, and now...

[Knicksgarbageforever]

Remember the thread I made about my ex? After a dramatic ending and a big arguement, we finally cut each other off with me getting my stuff back. Now I feel all alone. Every time I wake up from sleep, I just feel sad. This sad feeling has been over me since. My check comes next week Tuesday so I plan on shopping with my friend but to real I wouldn’t consider my self the best looking guy at all, so randomly pulling new women may be more difficult. Anybody been in my shoes? What’s the best move for me now?

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Make a deadline on it.

Give yourself a date where you need to have another chick you're fukkin.

So let's say you give yourself 3 weeks to "mourn" over your ex.

After those 3 weeks, you need to have another chick.

It'll make you take action and get busy.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

You don’t have to be the best looking man
But try to be more confident in yourself
See the positive things that you do have going for you
Where there is life there is a chance

 

[...o3]

...time should make you feel less sad. in the meantime, take care of yourself emotionally and spiritually. reflect on the things that worked and didn't work, and learn from those relationship mistakes. the last thing you want to do is jump into another relationship, or go back to the one you just left.

make time to just do you right now.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Time
Self improvement
New chick(s)

 

[Sassy]

Have confidence.

And please for the love of god, focus on yourself. You are the number 1 priority in life, and enjoy being single - think about the stuff you couldn't do when you were in a relationship.

 

[Turbulent]

hang out with friends more, have fun, have a hobby, be on your mission as they say. don't isolate yourself too much.

also, an idle mind is the devil's playground. Don't check her social media, don't contact her at all no matter what.

 

[Take It In Blood]

You don’t have to be the best looking man
But try to be more confident in yourself
See the positive things that you do have going for you
Where there is life there is a chance

send me a dreadlock in the mail

 

[Just like bruddas]

Take sometime to heal and decompress. I wouldn't recommend dating or fukking another woman so soon.

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Chill for a bit, mope a bit, but try and stay busy by exercising, running or doing stuff you like.. eventually you'll get restless or really bored and then you can go chase and eat.

No fap is a must

I was with my lady 17 years and from one day to the next it was all gone.

It's been about a month.


It's harder when your older (33)

All my friends are married, settled etc so I'm lone wolf out here. Still ain't go out but I did meet a girl last sunday and we been talking.


Might close that tonight

 

[Mike809]

Hit the gym and take out your feelings on the weights.

 

[mamba]

Chill for a bit, mope a bit, but try and stay busy by exercising, running or doing stuff you like.. eventually you'll get restless or really bored and then you can go chase and eat.

No fap is a must

I was with my lady 17 years and from one day to the next it was all gone.

It's been about a month.


It's harder when your older (33)

All my friends are married, settled etc so I'm lone wolf out here. Still ain't go out but I did meet a girl last sunday and we been talking.


Might close that tonight

17 years? Damn.

 

[Professor K.]

Username to post ratio is

But forreal breh, go to a strip club in the middle of the day before the cover starts by yourself and get a drink. It’ll be so dead in there that at least one or two chicks will talk to you for a couple songs to pass the time if nothing else. Talk to them like they’re regular chicks at a bar and use that to get back in rhythm and practice conversation. Find your groove, get a dance for a song or two, then bounce out to a real bar and make a play

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

Chill for a bit, mope a bit, but try and stay busy by exercising, running or doing stuff you like.. eventually you'll get restless or really bored and then you can go chase and eat.

No fap is a must

I was with my lady 17 years and from one day to the next it was all gone.

It's been about a month.


It's harder when your older (33)

All my friends are married, settled etc so I'm lone wolf out here. Still ain't go out but I did meet a girl last sunday and we been talking.


Might close that tonight

Similar situation.... long ass relationship ended and I took the time to concentrate on myself. I was straight status before the break up and a mental wreak.

Lost 50 lbs by simply waking a lot and eating well. Finally found time to write and the new women came into my life without much fuss.

It sucks now, but life will go on , especially with our drive to hook up with the opposite sex

 

[Serious]

Have confidence.

And please for the love of god, focus on yourself. You are the number 1 priority in life, and enjoy being single - think about the stuff you couldn't do when you were in a relationship.

Smash other women