So I gave my girl her V-Day gifts before 2/14 and she worries she is the J/O

[skeetsinternal]

Jumpoff V-day is 2/13 so if you got your gifts before or on 2/13 you the jumpoff, plain and simple.

In the case of my girl this is what I did thus far for her. I took her skiing for the weekend (during the recent snowstorm), and stayed 2 nights snowed in a nice private hotel, we got his and her pedicures and massages at the spa, ate good and won $1500 on the slots( I let her keep winnings...she opened a shared savings account for us with the money). I even gave her a custommade gym bag as a gift. This the least I could do for a woman that saved
my life and showing me a love I have never had before, yaw know my history, Now we communicate well and I am 100% honest with her and I already schooled her on many things about the game and how nikkas give their jumps gifts on 2/13 and she feeling like she must be the jump. Not so. I already know her work schedule for 2/14 (1-9:30pm) plus she got school so I had to do the big stuff early. So tomorrow I am only giving her a card and roses delivered to her job.

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Did yo moda receive my gift neega?

 

[jalamanta]

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

She should be understanding in why you chose to do things early vs later, especially given her work and school schedule. If she believes or feels like a jump.. thats an insecurity that she has that she needs to work out if you have communicated to her that she is not one.



You did well with the gifts and the vacay

 

[Ohene]

i dont know any of these stupid relationship rules yall follow. If I'm busy on the 14th or want to give gifts/do things earlier for convenience purposes thats what I'm gonna do.

some ppl make life more complicated than it needs to be.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Did yo moda receive my gift neega?

@ me reading it with an african accent

 

[Sad Bunny]

at jumpoff v-day on the 13th

 

[The BasedFather]

Did she directly tell you this or are you inferring this?

Either way....

@ the fact she feels like a J/O but is still with you and that you get Valentines gifts for your J/O.

Why not just tell her you're doing all these things because of her schedule?

 

[Ohene]

ppl really do v-day stuff for jumpoffs though? isnt that the benefit of her not being your official girlfriend; not having to do all the boyfriend stuff?

unheard of

 

[DanielAlfredsson]

ppl really do v-day stuff for jumpoffs though? isnt that the benefit of her not being your official girlfriend; not having to do all the boyfriend stuff?

unheard of

They still want some recognition on the romantic holiday of the year, girlfriend status or not.

Last year I had plans to hang with my jumpoff (it was understood this was just a "for fun" type relationship) on Valentines Day. I didnt realize it was Valentines Day when I made the plans for her to come over and watch a movie. I had already canceled on her once before, recently, so I knew if I bailed on this time, I may lose the sex privileges, and she was in bed.

So I got her a heart shaped cupcake as dessert for the pizza I ordered for us She seemed to enjoy it.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Jumpoff V-day is 2/13 so if you got your gifts before or on 2/13 you the jumpoff, plain and simple.

Not true. My bf is having my gift delivered today and we will be together tomorrow. I think it was a convenience thing since I won't be home or at school tomm (it has to be delivered somewhere).

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

going the xtra mile...trying to surprise her somehow some way on v-day

 

[flusterose]

that's her problem.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Not true. My bf is having my gift delivered today and we will be together tomorrow. I think it was a convenience thing since I won't be home or at school tomm (it has to be delivered somewhere).

This is cool because you seeing him today (2/14) but if you aint seeing him today and u already got your gift then that means you the jumpoff

 

[krackdagawd]

This is cool because you seeing him today (2/14) but if you aint seeing him today and u already got your gift then that means you the jumpoff