So I got the, "You're the perfect guy for me, but..." speech today

[Guess Who]

Long story short, there was an ex I was trying to get back with. I tried to let her go when we broke up but foolishly let her back into my life. Soon we were talking all the time, chilled periodically. Told me last night she was seeing a new dude. I said okay. She asked if I was mad. I said, nah. Then I told her I wish I could take back the one incident that fukked up our relationship (I punched a wall in front of her in an argument on the phone with someone else and she comes from abuse so it freaked her out and she was never the same--I'm normally very calm, but then she started thinking I have anger issues) and I told her I loved her (yeah I know I fukked up) and wished her the best. Then I went to bed.

Then I woke up to this long text about her wishing she could fall back in love with me, that I've grown and changed so much, that I'm the perfect guy for her...but she's afraid it just won't happen, and that I'll make some other lucky girl happy (lol). Then followed up with a text saying she couldn't sleep all last night thinking about it.

I responded by saying that I understand she with a new dude but if you feeling all this shyt then make the right decision and start fukkin with a nikka again, spend more time. Also said I wasn't gonna wait forever so she need to make a move. Haven't heard from the chick today...cuz she probably busy getting her back blown out by this new nikka.

Yeah, I simped.

Yeah, I'ma need to find the receipt to get my balls back.

Whatever.

I'm in my feelings right now.

Coli wolves...blood is in the air...eat if you will!

I probably won't check back to this thread for awhile, I'ma be busy getting my on. Plus I got some reports to finish for work anyway. And my nikka just holla'd to chill to get my mind off this shyt, so it's likely I'ma be away from the coli all day.

Happy labour day folks.

 

[LA Fisher]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

 

[Smoke]

You want a hug, and some tampons? Cuz you sounding like a real bytch right now.



Nah, but if she was really feeling all those feels about you she would've been called it off with the other dude. If nothing more than just to get her feelings together. Just let her go breh

 

[Rawtid]

Delete those texts and keep it pushing.

 

[BocaRear]

How it feel to know another nikka pounding that kitty out with little to no effort on his part?

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

 

[Meadow]

This sounds like a potential Drake song.

 

[Scientific Playa]

Then I woke up to this long text about her wishing she could fall back in love with me, that I've grown and changed so much, that I'm the perfect guy for her...but she's afraid it just won't happen, and that I'll make some other lucky girl happy (lol). Then followed up with a text saying she couldn't sleep all last night thinking about it.

she has class in dumping.....let it go breh.... ...too many fish in the sea.....

 

[Amy Traphouse]

Going back to a relationship that didn't work never ends well, NEVER!

Tell her that you're not perfect for her and she will find that guy who loves her. Don't take her back and end up breaking up again.

 

[TheSpook]

Why are you pushing for the relationship? Sucka shyt mane. She knew you were beta still.she thought you had potential which is why she kept in touch but she sees you still a weak nikka.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Delete those texts and keep it pushing.

Exactly. If she wanted to be with you, she would be breh. At the end of the day... It is what it is. Can't go back and change what happened in the past

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Delete those texts and keep it pushing.

This. She getting her back blown the fukk out and sending them consolation prize texts. Who in their right mind is giving up the "perfect" anything? You think the Cavs were like "LeBron, you're perfect for our shytty organization, but another team clearly deserves you on their plantation, sorry"

Don't even reply to her texts breh.

 

[Colicat]

She may be hoping that you confess your love for her and will never give up fighting for her....(don't ask me how)

....... some women believe in fairytales..... y'all must be young

 

[MikelArteta]

Long story short, there was an ex I was trying to get back with. I tried to let her go when we broke up but foolishly let her back into my life

1st mistake, never go back to a ex, or try to get back with a ex, or even let a ex back into your life.

3 Tenants

1. stop holding onto a chick who has let go of you

2. don't chase after something that doesn't want to be chased

3. you never have to chase what wants to stay

Soon we were talking all the time, chilled periodically. Told me last night she was seeing a new dude. I said okay. She asked if I was mad. I said, nah. Then I told her I wish I could take back the one incident that fukked up our relationship (I punched a wall in front of her in an argument on the phone with someone else and she comes from abuse so it freaked her out and she was never the same--I'm normally very calm, but then she started thinking I have anger issues) and I told her I loved her (yeah I know I fukked up) and wished her the best. Then I went to bed.

See exes know what spots of you to hit, like a pitcher who has faced a batter 100 times they know their weaknesses, they know where if they throw a slider down low his eyes will light up, they know how to play you and string you along. She was chilling with you laughing at you brought your hopes up, all while she was prob on tinder, pof, clubbing and meeting new guys. She even tested you asking if you were mad luckily you didn't hand your balls to her then and there.

She comes from abuse, them red flags.

Telling you love soemone only after you triggered a episode or fd up is handing your balls to them on a platter. Its the same as if you cheated on her and got caught and that was her trigger infidelity because her dad cheated on her mom and your like im sorry but i love you though. The more you say the more you can f up.

btw it had nothing to do with you punching a hole in the wall, if it wasnt that it would have been something else.

Then I woke up to this long text about her wishing she could fall back in love with me, that I've grown and changed so much, that I'm the perfect guy for her...but she's afraid it just won't happen, and that I'll make some other lucky girl happy (lol). Then followed up with a text saying she couldn't sleep all last night thinking about it.

aka her emotions came back and took over, she stelling you all this all while dating a new guy sucking his dikk and taking backshots from him remember. Women will tell you whatever you want to hear to calm your fears. They will give you that hope that your the best sweetest guy ever, i never met anybody like you.........but all it does for a guy whose a simp is keeps himhoping, but she said she loves me she said i just need to become the guy i used to and ill prob get her again, when in reality its over. There is no going back at all.

I responded by saying that I understand she with a new dude but if you feeling all this shyt then make the right decision and start fukkin with a nikka again, spend more time. Also said I wasn't gonna wait forever so she need to make a move. Haven't heard from the chick today...cuz she probably busy getting her back blown out by this new nikka.

Remember what I said before?:

3 Tenants

1. stop holding onto a chick who has let go of you

2. don't chase after something that doesn't want to be chased

3. you never have to chase what wants to stay

NEVER EVER EVER let a chick know your there waiting. Breh last year you were a 40 td 8 int 4,500 passing qb, why are you playing backup when there are teams out there who will let you start?

Yeah, I simped.

Yeah, I'ma need to find the receipt to get my balls back.

Whatever.

I'm in my feelings right now.

Coli wolves...blood is in the air...eat if you will!

Breh everyone has been in that situation at one point, dudes may laugh etc., but they've been there before, emotions even get the best of most niccaz you just gotta live and learn, many times even recently i've almost simped then I remembered the past when I opened up my heart, when a chick is gone she doesn't care its just a aww and then shes sucking a new dikk later. The less you say the less you can f up, the less your dignity goes in teh gutter.

I probably won't check back to this thread for awhile, I'ma be busy getting my on. Plus I got some reports to finish for work anyway. And my nikka just holla'd to chill to get my mind off this shyt, so it's likely I'ma be away from the coli all day.

Happy labour day folks.

keep your head up b, valuable lesson here never go back to a ex

remember the 3 tenants

3 Tenants

1. stop holding onto a chick who has let go of you

2. don't chase after something that doesn't want to be chased

3. you never have to chase what wants to stay

 

[Remote]

OP...

Breh...

Let that woman live with her decision.

She might have some sentimental attachment to you, but she don't want you.
She's just admitting that you're the nice guy she'll want to settle down with after she's done hoeing.