So I Might Become A Stepdad Soon

[Black Panther]

I'm legit nervous, brehs.

I'm 30 with no kids. Been dating this girl from Chicago for a while. Just hung out with her & her son for the first time. His father's not around and is an alcoholic Hotep-type. :mjlolhairfade:

Lil breh is cool, but he's mad sarcastic to his mom, almost to the point being disrespectful.

I know if I talked to my momma like he does, I wouldn't have a face

I've been married before, but idk if I'm ready to get married again, let alone step into a father's role.

Thoughts?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I'm sorry to hear that breh

 

[Doobie Doo]

Step sons are cool, that way you don't have to beat your own children.

 

[Black Panther]

Poll added

 

[Wildhundreds]

IThoughts?

 

[Dont@Me]

i mean......if u want. it aint me, so.....

 

[Wiles]

I'm sorry to hear that breh

 

[Sensitive Christian Grey]

So this is what happens when Wakanda opens its borders

But on a serious note breh, you might want to be a role model for this boy but you shouldn't get married off a principle, especially if there's doubt towards your feelings to the mother. Give it a few more months (6+ IMO) and see if your feelings develop and are unhindered by what trials may come

 

[Arris]

only positive thing I took away is that it took her a while to introduce you to her son. in that aspect she has a good head on her shoulders, can't really say more until you volunteer more info

 

[Critical Distance]

waiting on that spin thread

 

[TripleAgent]

Kid sounds like a dikkhead. Nah.

 

[Ya' Cousin Cleon]

I had a step dad that I pretty much call my real pops

if you’re gonna do it then do it because you have love for shorty and you respect the little breh for who he is and his situation

don’t be shocked that her BD might try pop off or try and get into the picture again, be a bit reserved we need be.

 

[Neuromancer]

OP you know you the bro. If you cool with it good. I wouldn't But all the power to you.
Had the chance to so it once.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I wouldn’t do it but maybe you’re a better man than me.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

Dont do it. RUN...