So My Ex Attempted Suicide....

[RAX 010]

We were living together, i told her i was moving months in advanced the day i moved out she texted me later that night and said she didn't want to go on... i ended up having to call 911 because of what she was texting me and it actually saved her life....now she is in the hospital her parents and family dont want me involved in her life anymore ...but she keeps texting me that she cant do it without me...so i text her stuff like "sending you healing vibes" "stay positive" etc.
my question is am i hurting her by continuing to entertain her? should i just change my number and let her be able to heal or what? any feedback would be useful.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Why you break up with her?

 

[knickscrusaderm]

now she is in the hospital her parents and family dont want me involved in her life anymore ...

What the fukk? .

You should probably stay in contact with her and help her cope with her issues.

 

[PaperEnterprise]

Nope. You need to move on as well. Cut contact and know you cant help her cope...youll just give her false hope.

 

[FoolinLikeABitvh]

Cut her Off.

It's for her own benefit.

 

[RAX 010]

i shoulda made this a poll because i keep hearing to keep helping her and leave her alone ....

 

[Lavish]

Damn homie

 

[42 Monks]

Don't get dragged into that shyt. Speaking from experience.

She needs professional help and you ain't it.

 

[RAX 010]

Why you break up with her?

we were going through some things had some trust issues and i felt the need to have my own space ....its deeper than that but not really relevant

 

[PaperEnterprise]

i shoulda made this a poll because i keep hearing to keep helping her and leave her alone ....

fukk a poll. Be smart and move on...this thread shows you care for her but that isnt a solution for her. She needs her friends and families support to make her better.

If she tried to off herself for you leaving her, she is weak...she needs to learn to love herself...that hopefully she learns from her support group.

 

[Uncle Kendrick]

Is she white?

 

[The Mad Titan]

Geezus man, don't listen to this advice.

If you are going to leave (cut her off) now would be the time while she has a support system around her.


Other than that the decent thing to do would be support her through this.

Doesn't mean you gotta be lovely dovey...but if you actually cared for her let her know her worth and that she can't be doing this and it won't win you back if that's the end goal.

 

[Big Daddy]

Damnnnn I've been in this been in this same type situation before breh..never had a chick who went all the way thru with actually attempting it, but had all the signs, said all the same things your ex would say, smh... the way I dealt with it was by letting the communication get less and less until she was "weened" off of me, so to speak.

 

[RAX 010]

Is she white?

nah

 

[lakinta]

change ya #

if she is trying to off herself, and she is using you as her rationale, she's in a Very fragile state and you are just the straw that broke the camel's back. she needs help/support from family and professionals to deal with the whole bag of issues she's carrying.

edit: i speak from painful experience. i know it can be hard to cut ties and leave things in the hands of her family and/or psychologists, especially if you feel guilty. but trust that if you didnt feel strongly enough to stay with her, you not gunna have enough strength to see her through her recovery.