So Phillip Buchanon has a book out "New Money: Staying Rich"

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Seems like an interesting read, I remember reports of Tyron Smith going through similar extortion from his family

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"When I got to the NFL, I was all dollars and no sense," Buchanon recently explained to FOX Sports. "I want to make sure the next generation of athletes doesn't make the same mistakes."

[URL='https://secure.mybookorders.com/Orderpage/1551']The book is the latest venture for Buchanon, who also wrote a comic book[/URL] on the same subject, and who is continuing to do whatever he can to educate a younger generation. As a matter of fact, he thinks more people in similar situations should also write books.

Buchanon's book is, in fact, out, and he was nice enough to give FOXSports.com an exclusive excerpt. Here is Buchanon, discussing how his relationship changed with his mother, once he made it big.

Soon after the draft, she told me that I owed her a million dollars for raising me for the past 18 years. Well, that was news to me. If my mother taught me anything, it's that this is the most desperate demand that a parent can make on a child. The covenant of having a child is simply that you give your child everything possible, and they owe you nothing beyond a normal amount of love and respect. The mothers and fathers of the world have been rearing their kids for generations -- in every culture imaginable -- and it's a one-way street when it comes to money. If they pay you back someday, and you really are going through hard times, then that's just a bonus, a gratuity for being a great mother or father.

Please do not think I'm being ungrateful or cheap. I had already followed the unwritten rule of any NFL New Money Millionaire: I bought my mother a house. I also advised her to sell the old one I grew up in when I put a new roof over her head, but my mother had other plans. Instead of selling my childhood home, she decided to rent it to my aunt. So I had to finance my mother, the budding landlord. Only this wasn't an investment. It was an encumbrance, because I didn't share in my mother's profit-making scheme. For the next seven years, I continued to make mortgage and maintenance payments on both homes.

Anger built up inside me as my mother collected rent from our old house and never offered a cent to offset the expenses. It got to a point that I had to kick her boyfriend out. She accused me of messing up her life. What she didn't see was that her boyfriend was pimping her and me out. He wasn't bringing anything to the table, just taking.

When I told my mother she would have to take care of the maintenance after I paid off the mortgage on her house, she told me she would not be able to afford the upkeep on a house that big. In fact, she made it seem like it was my fault for picking out a house that big. In part, she was right. I bought her a house with my luxury taste and no real wisdom behind it. It was an uneducated purchase. Many NFL players choose a wiser route: they buy a reasonably sized home, pay for it in cash, keep it in their name, but gift it to their mother.

I tried giving my mother that option the second time around. I offered to buy her a comfortable house in my name for her to live in. This way she wouldn't have to take out any loans or put my little sister and brothers in a situation where the roof over their heads could be taken away. She'd move out of the house that was too big for her and into this new one. Instead, she opted for $15,000 cash. She told me that if the new house didn't have space for two living room sets, she didn't want it.

I eventually learned how to deal with the numerous "family emergencies." Early on, I found myself in too many situations where some relative would come to me and claim they needed something fixed. So I'd write them a check; of course, the problem never got fixed. The check, however, always got cashed. By trying to fix a problem, I created an additional one for myself.

I finally learned how to cope with this type of request. I paid the bills directly to the company or handyman doing the work. It was amazing to see how my family responded when I told them I would take care of it. They tried to lay the heaviest guilt number on me. I can still hear their muttering tones with tinges of disgust: "Nah, man, I'm cool. Forget about it." This response meant they knew I was on to what they were up to. I had caught them red-handed, committing an act of adult abuse.

It took hundreds of thousands of dollars, far more than the cost of an Ivy League education, to learn this lesson. I can at least attribute it to my mother. It's true; mothers have a way of making you learn the most important lessons in life.

 

[SoulController]

most slept on member of the early 2000s Canes, dude was a monster. i checked him out on twitter for awhile, seemed like a guy with something to say

 

[jadillac]

that's sad.....but money USUALLY makes people more of what they already are. And that can be good or bad.

 

[Knights89]

She told me that if the new house didn't have space for two living room sets, she didn't want it.

So I'd write them a check; of course, the problem never got fixed. The check, however, always got cashed. By trying to fix a problem, I created an additional one for myself.

I finally learned how to cope with this type of request. I paid the bills directly to the company or handyman doing the work. It was amazing to see how my family responded when I told them I would take care of it. They tried to lay the heaviest guilt number on me. I can still hear their muttering tones with tinges of disgust: "Nah, man, I'm cool. Forget about it." This response meant they knew I was on to what they were up to. I had caught them red-handed, committing an act of adult abuse.

this is some bs right here ...catch feelings because your lying no longer works

 

[Llcoolbay]

Soon after the draft, she told me that I owed her a million dollars for raising me for the past 18 years

Would probably have to walk out if my mom ever said some shyt like that to me and was serious

 

[Primetime21]

Would probably have to walk out if my mom ever said some shyt like that to me and was serious

Yea..I wouldnt expect any parent to say that to their child

 

[PortCityProphet]

That man mamma ain't shyt.

 

[Big Boss]

 

[Rekkapryde]

nikkaz.....

It's why I fear what is gonna happen with my cousin Lamar's (Walter Scott) family after their lawsuit with the city is settled. Hopefully there won't be any fukkery, but I doubt it seriously.

Money brings out the worst in cats.

 

[Trojan 24]

Yo he had a spark when he started, but then my Raiders eventually put it out

 

[scarhead]

The part about his mom's boyfriend...

LeBron

 

[FaTaL]

i cant believe that story about that cowboys oline player getting shaked down by his family

 

[Rekkapryde]

i cant believe that story about that cowboys oline player getting shaked down by his family

are you really surprised? Everybody in the family thinks they rich when someone in the family makes it.

 

[hood b. goode]

i cant believe that story about that cowboys oline player getting shaked down by his family

Link?