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I've been dating this chick although nothing serious for the past 4 months. She has a son who is 7. No big deal to me since I have 2 kids of my own.
Anyway, her and her son's father get along great. I've met him and he was one of the few dudes that didn't act like a dikkhead. Always showed respect.
So anyhow, 3 months into the relationship she tells me that she is planning to take her son to Disney in Florida which is cool. But then she goes on to tell me that her baby father is coming too. I told her that I wasn't okay with that. She told me that they take these family trips annually.
I explained to her that if she is in a relationship then she shouldn't be taking vacations with another man regardless of the situation. It's different if it's a graduation or a birthday party, and even then if you're in a serious relationship you should invite your boyfriend. (Mad that I even had to explain this to her)
She went on to tell me that I'm insecure and that if I'm with her and he knows this, then why am I worried about him and her going somewhere with their son. And that she's been doing this before we met, no other dude ever had a problem with it, and if I do, then we just need to stop dealing.
Long story short, I cut her off a few weeks later and she's mad at me calling me an insecure lame. But I think if any other dude was in my situation they would have done the same. If I would have allowed that bullshyt, dude would have been in our lives forever on a very uncomfortable level.
But on another note, what the fukk is wrong with these bytches thinking shyt like this is ok?
I've been dating this chick although nothing serious for the past 4 months. She has a son who is 7. No big deal to me since I have 2 kids of my own.
Anyway, her and her son's father get along great. I've met him and he was one of the few dudes that didn't act like a dikkhead. Always showed respect.
So anyhow, 3 months into the relationship she tells me that she is planning to take her son to Disney in Florida which is cool. But then she goes on to tell me that her baby father is coming too. I told her that I wasn't okay with that. She told me that they take these family trips annually.
I explained to her that if she is in a relationship then she shouldn't be taking vacations with another man regardless of the situation. It's different if it's a graduation or a birthday party, and even then if you're in a serious relationship you should invite your boyfriend. (Mad that I even had to explain this to her)
She went on to tell me that I'm insecure and that if I'm with her and he knows this, then why am I worried about him and her going somewhere with their son. And that she's been doing this before we met, no other dude ever had a problem with it, and if I do, then we just need to stop dealing.
Long story short, I cut her off a few weeks later and she's mad at me calling me an insecure lame. But I think if any other dude was in my situation they would have done the same. If I would have allowed that bullshyt, dude would have been in our lives forever on a very uncomfortable level.
But on another note, what the fukk is wrong with these bytches thinking shyt like this is ok?
