so this chick just asked me "Why do you believe woman are evil?"

[karim]

... when I told her that a lot of woman loose respect for a man when he shows weakness or when they feel superior to him. And that for many of them, a relationship is a constant battle for supremacy. This was after she told me the following:

- when i go to a club i can tell you right away who my type is - the bouncer
- i always choose the bad guys, nice guys are way too boring for me
- all nice guys are bad in bed, no woman wants a man who constantly tries to please her, he needs to make us please him ( followed by mocking a nice guy having sex and constantly asking for permission)
- complaining about a particular nice guy who pursues her for over a year now and whom she uses to do stuff for her she doesn't feel like doing. She also said she considered dating him but he was way too available and boring and no challenge at all.

Yet, when I told her to compare what she told me to my assumption that woman don't respect weakness she didn't understand.

Sometimes, these females have me flustered

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Then men pay attention to women like than and come around the rest of us acting all hard with some made up stories and messed up behaviour

 

[karim]

Then men pay attention to women like than and come around the rest of us acting all hard with some made up stories and messed up behaviour

She's not a bad person. What flusters me is that she identified the behavior as evil, not me. I merely described what i observed, without judgement. Yet, even though she thinks it's not right to treat dudes like that, she is unable to reflect her own behavior and preferences.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I didn't say she was a bad person. What I'm "complaining" about is guys then thinking that's how they should be with all females

Did you call her/women evil after she said that?

 

[karim]

I didn't say she was a bad person. What I'm "complaining" about is guys then thinking that's how they should be with all females

Did you call her/women evil after she said that?

No, I just said that what she just told me fits with my observations of male female interaction.

Basically, as a man you loose appeal if you become too available and come across as too nice and/or weak.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

No, I just said that what she just told me fits with my observations of male female interaction.

Basically, as a man you loose appeal if you become too available and come across as too nice and/or weak.

Well depends on how available, if you run around after anything that breathes then yes your market value plummets but a guy who's got his life in order but is taking time to pursue you? That's hot

The bad vs. nice thing comes down to confidence. Just because the guy behaves like a neanderthal doesn't mean he's confident actually most times he's probably overcompensating for his stupidity

 

[Typical Simp]

A real man should adapt himself the way a woman desires and put her wants and needs way ahead of his own. If they want a bad boy, then be a bad boy. If they want a nice man, then be a nice man. Even if that is not your true nature, you should put on a front and go against who you truly are just to please a woman off the strength that she is a female.

 

[karim]

Well depends on how available, if you run around after anything that breathes then yes your market value plummets but a guy who's got his life in order but is taking time to pursue you? That's hot

The bad vs. nice thing comes down to confidence. Just because the guy behaves like a neanderthal doesn't mean he's confident actually most times he's probably overcompensating for his stupidity

Availability is not about chaising tail, it's about whether or not a woman feels she's got you in her pocket.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Availability is not about chaising tail, it's about whether or not a woman feels she's got you in her pocket.

Same thing, if a guy is smart and has it together then you are his weakness, still hot.


Are you trying to figure out whether to become a bad boy or not

 

[karim]

Same thing, if a guy is smart and has it together then you are his weakness, still hot.


Are you trying to figure out whether to become a bad boy or not

No, i"m just baffled by her lack of self reflection.
It's something I encountered in many woman and I wonder what that is about.

She's actually trying to get me to sleep with her and complained about my ego when i didn't go for it, so apparently i already am a bad boy. Too mamy red flags though

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

No, i"m just baffled by her lack of self reflection.
It's something I encountered in many woman and I wonder what that is about.

She's actually trying to get me to sleep with her and complained about my ego when i didn't go for it, so apparently i already am a bad boy. Too mamy red flags though

Some chick offered herself to you and you said no

 

[karim]

Some chick offered herself to you and you said no

Another thing about woman, they believe a man has to take any p*ssy offered to him. It's really not that big of a deal

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Another thing about woman, they believe a man has to take any p*ssy offered to him. It's really not that big of a deal

What you're selling I'm not buying

 

[karim]

What you're selling I'm not buying

Case im point

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Case im point

These chicks are hilarious. They don't realize that once you've fukked enough women you realize that p*ssy doesn't mean shyt