i met this chick a little more than a year ago at a friends birthday party. we talked a bit and she was digging me, but i was trying to hook up with another girl that night so i didn't even ask her for her number. the next day, she send me a friend request on facebook. i ran into her again a couple of month later when our mutual friend invited both of us to the some event. she spent most of the evening talking to me and repeatedly tried to get me to ask her out. she is hot, but struck me as very inexperienced, so i wasn't all that interested. i exchanged numbers with her but never called.
over the next couples of month she kept inviting me to parties, but for some reason or another, i could never make it. i actually started feeling bad about it, so when she texted me one day because she needed somebody to help her with an experiment (she's studying psychology) i said yes. after i played some stupid variation of the prisoners dilemma for her, she said she was going to invite me for dinner as a thank you. this is where the story gets weird, because she kept cancelling the date. after she cancelled for the third time and didn't reply when i wrote her a message i was like
bytch, the whole thing was your idea, you've been pursuing me, not the other way around. so when she tried setting up another date a couple of days later, i told her i wasn't interested anymore, because i appreciate neither flaking nor being ignored. she was pretty shocked and insisted that she really wanted to have dinner with me, but that she was busy with school yadayada... i was like 
and told her not to call me unless she was sure she could make it.
i didn't hear from her again until three month ago. i was about to move back home and somebody must have told her, because she asked if she could buy me lunch before i left, since she never made good on her promise to invite me for dinner.
when we met for lunch, she showed up late, conversation was
and she was completely distracted and didn't even make an effort to act as if she was paying attention to me. i didn't mind that much, because i mainly went for the free food, but i still wondered why she had insisted on doing this. at the end she asked me if i was going to come to her birthday party in march. i said something along the lines of: well, i'm moving 300 miles away in two days, but i'll see if i can make it.
so today i check my emails, and there is an invitation to her birthday.
what is she thinking? is there a female member here who can explain the reasoning behind her behaviour? does she relly expect me to travel that far after a gazillion flakes and one bad date over lunch? why keep in touch with someone who wasn't really into you in the first place, and who you apparently weren't really into either? and what am i to do? should i just ignore her, set her straight or ask her what this is all about?
i mean, i normally just ignore girls who act weird or play games, but this one has me intrigued, just because i can't comprehend what she is doing.
over the next couples of month she kept inviting me to parties, but for some reason or another, i could never make it. i actually started feeling bad about it, so when she texted me one day because she needed somebody to help her with an experiment (she's studying psychology) i said yes. after i played some stupid variation of the prisoners dilemma for her, she said she was going to invite me for dinner as a thank you. this is where the story gets weird, because she kept cancelling the date. after she cancelled for the third time and didn't reply when i wrote her a message i was like
bytch, the whole thing was your idea, you've been pursuing me, not the other way around. so when she tried setting up another date a couple of days later, i told her i wasn't interested anymore, because i appreciate neither flaking nor being ignored. she was pretty shocked and insisted that she really wanted to have dinner with me, but that she was busy with school yadayada... i was like and told her not to call me unless she was sure she could make it.i didn't hear from her again until three month ago. i was about to move back home and somebody must have told her, because she asked if she could buy me lunch before i left, since she never made good on her promise to invite me for dinner.
when we met for lunch, she showed up late, conversation was
and she was completely distracted and didn't even make an effort to act as if she was paying attention to me. i didn't mind that much, because i mainly went for the free food, but i still wondered why she had insisted on doing this. at the end she asked me if i was going to come to her birthday party in march. i said something along the lines of: well, i'm moving 300 miles away in two days, but i'll see if i can make it.so today i check my emails, and there is an invitation to her birthday.
what is she thinking? is there a female member here who can explain the reasoning behind her behaviour? does she relly expect me to travel that far after a gazillion flakes and one bad date over lunch? why keep in touch with someone who wasn't really into you in the first place, and who you apparently weren't really into either? and what am i to do? should i just ignore her, set her straight or ask her what this is all about?i mean, i normally just ignore girls who act weird or play games, but this one has me intrigued, just because i can't comprehend what she is doing.
