So what exactly is the reason that getting with a girl with a kid is so bad

Dameon Farrow

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Honestly breh I've noticed that many childless folk have brought into the notion that they are the super duper minority walking around and don't even try to seek others out just like them half the time. And you have to seek..as with many things in life, not gonna just fall in your lap.
 

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Dating chicks with kids had made me question the world sometimes to be honest. It's made me realize my upbringing wasn't the same as everyone else's.

I know when my mom had me, we were like a real family and I was the priority. She went to work, came home, cooked dinner, made my lunch and focused on ME. She wasn't in the club regularly, sneaking out of her boyfriend's crib to smoke weed and fukk nikkas in cars, hanging out all hours of the night and shyt......That's what some of these girls who have kids in their 20s are doing. It just makes you question how they're raising their kid and why the fukk you would even think about starting a family with them. I dunno, maybe I'm old school but I think by the time you have your kid all the partying and wilding out should be out of your system......

If the other reasons I gave for not dating single mothers don't convince you, this should.
All of this is true and I've seen it too. Honestly I just think cats that are in their late 20's-30's moms were that last generation of moms wholesale that act like you said your mom did. I see alot of what you described from the young moms nowadays. Maybe this happened back then but it wasn't out in the open but now shyt is wide open
 

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nothing wrong with it. as long as she's a good woman and you can build with her, it's all good. eventually you start looking at little dude like your own flesh, providing for him and his mom, being the man to them. Then maybe one day you're gonna buy him a video game console off craigslist with a few NBA games, Madden games, and so on. and you'll tell him to start playing from the season already saved up on there. he'll look at you like :rudy:

and then it will all click like :ohhh:

:patrice: I see what you did there, breh!
 
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25 years old and younger single moms are the worst because when they out clubbing and put their kids on someone else, thats just not a good look.

Whether it be a parent, simp step daddy, or a sibling, no kid should be put off on someone else if youre capable.

i think once you have a kid, you give up your weekly party rights
 
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Because I'm not tryna compete with a child for a woman's attention in the beginning stages of a relationship, especially if the kid's some fatherless-acting brat.

Because she has a fukking kid? :what:

Anyone notice the two names that dapped this post :lolbron:
 

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-because that shyt is lame.
-because I don't wanna adjust my schedule according to ANYONE, not even a fukking kid
-because kids are annoying
-because i don't even want a hint of me trying to play a daddy role to permeate this bytch's brain
-because the internet
-because I wanna fukk 2-3 times in 1 night without you worrying if your little one is still breathing
-because I am biased against stretch marks
-basketball reasons
-because that lil fukker probably blew your vagina out the frame during child birth
-because young, childless bytches have this unspeakable, invisible, yet noticeable energy that gets my dikk harder
-because older, childless bytches have this unspeakable, invisible, yet noticeable energy that gets my dikk harder
-because i don't wanna muffle your mama's screams with a pillow with i put the dack all the way in, bytch
-because i'm trying to fukk on that dining room table
-because i don't wanna trip over some kid's dirty ass transformers/dora book bag
-because your annoying ass is delaying my dack getting suck
-because I'm selfish, lil nugga
-because your existence is compromising part of my freedom too
-because I just don't give a fukk about motherfukkas that don't share DNA with me
So powerful...
:whew:
 

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Nothing really. Unless you're dealing with a sorry, desperate woman (your fault) you won't even have interaction with the children besides a hi and bye for months. If that.
 
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