So whats up w/ chicks staying friends w/ their father who molested them

[Mr210]

real talk do you know any chicks who still talk to their father who molested them or other family members who were aware of what happen.

Ive dated or been with like 5 chicks who were molested 4 of the 5 had nothing to do with their father or any relatives that were aware but didnt do anything but this one chick I dated she kept pictures around of the guy and spoke highly about him. She was even real close to her mother who stayed married to the father even though she knew what her husband was doing to her daughter

ive heard that some women handle that stuff differently

 

[MikelArteta]

well some are brainwashed and manipulated, men do the same thing till they finally come forward.

so not really a female thing

 

[Black]

T/S has obviously been molested and doesn't know how to cope. Only weak nikkas like you get taken advantage of.

 

[Habit]

She probably forgave him, some girls even "move on" and try to live normal lives. Its a lonely place.

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

real talk do you know any chicks who still talk to their father who molested them or other family members who were aware of what happen.

Ive dated or been with like 5 chicks who were molested 4 of the 5 had nothing to do with their father or any relatives that were aware but didnt do anything but this one chick I dated she kept pictures around of the guy and spoke highly about him. She was even real close to her mother who stayed married to the father even though she knew what her husband was doing to her daughter

ive heard that some women handle that stuff differently

You sure do know how to pick em

 

[Slystallion]

Some are afraid to ruin the family dynamic and prefer to keep the memory distant. There is cognitive dissonance for all involved. Some respond by burying it and pretending it never happened and focusing on the good the person does

 

[Angel On The Rag]

females love abuse, so its only natural they stay close with their abusers

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

I seriously had to break out my Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV) for this thread.



Seek counseling breh.

 

[Habit]

Some are afraid to ruin the family dynamic and prefer to keep the memory distant. There is cognitive dissonance for all involved. Some respond by burying it and pretending it never happened and focusing on the good the person does

Especially if self-blame or self-sacrifice is involved.

 

[Mowgli]

If youve ever spent a great amount time in the hood you notice some of the kids are OUT THERE. They are victims, but they dont act like it.....

But you guys are at the strip club . They women dont end up on the pole, the corner and in porn because their parents loved them dearly.

 

[OPTiMO]

man i want to know who the fukk is molesting these kids



its crazy for me to think that there's prolly a pervert living right in my apartments these people must be terminated.

 

[Habit]

If youve ever spent a great amount time in the hood you notice some of the kids are OUT THERE. They are victims, but they dont act like it.....

But you guys are at the strip club . They women dont end up on the pole, the corner and in porn because their parents loved them dearly.

Well that's how they cope with the pain and shame, but I don't think we are talking about that dynamic. Most of those chicks probably don't stay in close contact with their abuser. Now imagine if its a father or sibling...that really complicates things.

 

[Ashley Banks]

man i want to know who the fukk is molesting these kids



its crazy for me to think that there's prolly a pervert living right in my apartments these people must be terminated.

You never know who's doing it, family members, family friends, neighbors, etc.

 

[Numpsay]

Dated one girl father molested her from the age of 11-18, told her mother about it, mother was "mad" for a day, then was right back with dude, wrote ole girl a letter explaining herself etc.. Anyway girl still goes around them like no problem and even lets her own daughter spend time over there.

Females are funny creatures.

 

[Assata Shakur]

Deep down she wanted daddy dikk