Which is what should be the focus. But it’s not. These internet “gurus” do irreparable harm b/c they fail to give their listeners the help they truly need. They are there for entertainment. Grifters. That’s it.
Too many of these listless stans are looking for convenient scapegoats, get p*ssy quick schemes, excuses and black female humiliation rituals to explain their romantic woes, instead of focusing on the basics: job, car, room and board, non-weirdo/creepy personality, sense of identity and purpose, self-love, choosing compatible women instead of chasing ass and titties that don’t want you and getting mad about chicks preferences and knowing how to communicate.
That’s the real red-pill advice. Men need to focus on themselves instead of desperately trying to blow black women’s candles out hoping it will make their own shine brighter.
Worse yet, they are listening to depressing, nihilistic, racist shyt online that hyperfocused on lies about the opposite sex that cements and validates their social anxieties instead of addressing their personality disorders.
This shyt is old and has been rehashed since the early 2000s. Ya’ll have heard in some shape, form or fashion that black women aint shyt, are ugly, manly, not submissive, not worthy. Ect. Need to get an exotical overseas. Blah, blah, blah. But it hasn’t helped black men progress. Why? Because these listeners are more concerned with humbling black women than helping themselves and if they continue down this road, it’ll be another 20 years and they’ll still be in the same place. Stuck worrying about what new thot posting on OnlyFans, with no identity, future prospects or basic social skills, but yelling at all women in cars. I hate it for these dudes because there’s so much more to life. But some of em will never see it b/c they too busy getting in their own way and blaming women for it.
Don’t be like them dudes babe. Focus on u and grow. Chicks will come along the way.
