So women dont like men who are predictable?

[NobodyReally]

I mean I could really care less about the broad I'm more concerned with the fact a man with a routine is considered predictable. If you dont have a routine imo you dont have a plan or direction.

There's a few things that may be going on:
1. She really isn't into you and is just picking at things to rationalize it.
2. She's used to more drama in her life- like negative drama and she doesn't know what to do with someone who doesn't bring any craziness (if this is the case. RUN!)
3. She's dissatisfied with her own life and is looking for other people/things to fill an inner void she hasn't yet confronted (if this is the case, run! You'll never be exciting enough even if you do switch up your game)
4. You really are predictable, meaning, perhaps you go to the same restaurant all the time, you watch the same show, play the same video game, she can set her alarm by what you're doing at any particular time of day (if this is working for you, maybe you guys just aren't compatible, or maybe you need to do some reflection about exploring some new things?)

 

[Ello_Vee]

Why do you even bother? Let her go enjoy someone who wants to be with her and you go enjoy your job. When you find someone you want to put an effort into, then do it. But don't blame this one for calling it like it is. She should have left already, but she's getting something outta you that keeps her around.

 

[Surreal]

They're women. They themselves don't know what they want at a given time

 

[StickStickly]

It is what it is but I work and been on my own since I was 20 I don't need shyt from nobody. Alot of these women want unpredictable ass dudes but them nikkas be broke with multiple baby mamas and shyt. I'm good on all that all I'm saying at the end of the day having fun and doing all that shyt yall speak of is a short term fix and women should look for different qualities besides that. Its also other things you can do like beaches, vacations, etc but its work first with me.

Would you be happy with a woman who worked 60 hours a week and only wanted to go out to eat and see a movie every two weeks for the rest of your life? I'm an introvert but even i know if I'm boring people won't want to stick around. I work over 60 hrs a week and my boy formed has a good stable job too and we still find time to bring excitement to one another. You don't have to spend money every weekend or leave the house every day, you just have to be open to experiencing the world around you. If she thinks you're boring she probably thinks you don't care or are bored with her. If she thinks your job is boring then she may be immature or tired of hearing about it. Men do this too. People want to live life, even if they work all the time. Your partner is your refuge. Sounds to me like she doesn't excite you either.