Some Black women are confusing sometimes when it comes to dating

[godkiller]

Maybe THAT woman, didn't like your normal everyday ass. You're not attracted to every woman you see and meet either. It's just not a global issue when someone you like doesn't like you back. And this is coming from someone who makes sweeping generalizations all time time.

True but I was just wondering if BM physicals mean more t BW than physicals of other groups. I also said "some". Honestly I think @Raheem95 is an East African so I don't know why he is asking this question. In my area good black girls don't date a Somali or whatever. The groups don't mix. Raheem should try Horners or white girls, and leave BW alone.

 

[boyboy]

I see what @Raheem95 is saying. Some (emphasis on some!) Black women reject normal everyday black men all the time then whine about the lack of black men or how some black men treat them. The plethora of black men walking alone is evidence of this.

Black women seem to initially only want black men for physical, monetary and sexual purpose, holding black men to absurd in order to fufill black women's superficial desires.

Only when some black woman can't find her 6'5 black rich Adonis will they mellow out and consider a normal black man. Some black women never reach this point, however, and instead blame all black men and resort to dating the low quality of white man the same black woman rejected all her life in black men.

See, what this tendency implies about some black women's opinions of black men is precisely what @miranda once said about black men. That is, she believes black men have nothing to offer women but our dikks and bodies. Judging from the discriminatory and discerning by behavior some black women exhibit towards black men, in juxtaposition to how said black women treat non-blacks in comparison, it must be assumed that some black women believe physicality and wealth is all black men are worth. And so that is the locus by which black women choose us.

All this talk about BW willness to date unattractive non black men but only attractive BM for some reason got me thinking of all the talk about those escorts ads by BLACK WOMEN that say NO BLACK MEN....lol....In all serious I think those ads kind of hit on the same theme...The theme that BM won't have the money, play games, try to pimp them or who knows what else they are thinking.

This isn't all BW. But I agree there IS a segment of BW who feel if a BM isn't physically attractive, or at least got some swag or something about him then he is worthless. As @Stevej pointed out we've seen BW state as much. On top of the fact we've seen BW date non BM particularity white that we know for a fact she wouldn't have dated if he was black. Doesn't bother me though nor should it bother you. It just weed those type out and make it easier for you to find what I'm looking for. The ironic thing about those type of BW though is they would most likely never meet the type of BM they assume don't exist(intelligent, career focus, family oriented, etc) precisely because they assume they don't exist unless they get lucky and happen to meet that type of man in a good looking black man. Thank you for pointing this out. This is a prime example of what I'm talking about when I say some BW can't see the forest from the trees and end up playing themselves, lol. They can't find a certain type of BM because they assume he don't exist, lol.

 

[boyboy]

Maybe THAT woman, didn't like your normal everyday ass. You're not attracted to every woman you see and meet either. It's just not a global issue when someone you like doesn't like you back. And this is coming from someone who makes sweeping generalizations all time time.

That's not whats been said here. Why is the defense to something you don't like is to always flip the switch and make it seems like a personal problem? Who said this has anything to do with him. Maybe he is just speaking on an observation he's seen.

Anyway this isn't something he just imagined. This is illustrated in escorts ads. People always point out how many ads by black women of them say no black men. Now you are probably going to say yeah but those BW assume those BM are going to try to low ball them, play games, pimp them, etc, etc. But that's exactly his point, there is a prejudice there, whether you think it's justified or not.

I don't fukk with escorts but I do go to strip clubs from time to time and I've seen similar scenarios played out. I've seen black stripper ask non black men if they want a dance before asking black men. I'm not even talking about bum looking black men, I'm talking about black men in suits. Also what type of sense does it make to assume that men in a strip club don't have money for dances? But apparently some BW think so lowly of BM they assume that.

Of course if you are in a mixed strip club you can flip the game on them. I've seen BM notice that shyt and start letting only non black strippers dance for them. Then you see the black strippers standing there looking heated as the black dude shove cash in a white or asian gstring, lol. It's like why are you mad? You walked right past dude annd straight to the white/non black dude and asked him if he wanted a dance. No reason for you to be mad. This is just a reflection of regular dating where we see the same thing. We see black women ignore a black dude until he get with a non black woman. No it's all of sudden a problem, lol.

 

[jackson35]

maybe it;s because as men we don't know how to carry ourselves around black women when we are with them. we never try to be ourseves. we always act bigger then what we are.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Learn to be content with not being in a relationship. You aren't any better off single or in a relationship.

Then you'll stop over-analyzing all this/.

This is a lie

 

[360dagod]

let me ask u this tho, what if hes just a normal guy that workhard and come home and just chill...?

your stale and predictable...

have a sidepiece and create a form of competition for yourself...

Stay out late sometimes, flirt in front of her and get her juices flowing

 

[www.THUG.com]

They are outhere playing daddy

Studs be the biggest 'simps' rite now. I guess bc so many black men,have eaten up the narrative that taking care of another woman's kids is being a "simp", somebody had to pick up the slack

They're creating another generation of confusion

 

[#1 pick]

Save urself the trouble tho.

yeah after I gave up on black women and started dating pawgs etc my life miraculously became 100% better and easier. I never have any issues anymore. It's amazing it's like black women were the cause of all my issues.

Yep!

 

[#1 pick]

finally somebody admitted it...woman dont care about salary, degrees, muscles n shyt

thats what i said and they called me stupid...woman like charisma...they like rebels....they like dudes that dont play by societies rules.......

thats why ima be fukking alotta professional dudes bytches pretty soon...while theyre at work @Money Mase , see thats why u cant beat me...the yin and the yang nikka,

Women aren't all the same but understanding her emotions, playing with them, communication both verbal and non verbal is critical as well as the best skill which is game. The ability to make her p*ssy wet. You can't do this, you literally will die in the friend zone

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Save urself the trouble tho.

yeah after I gave up on black women and started dating pawgs etc my life miraculously became 100% better and easier. I never have any issues anymore. It's amazing it's like black women were the cause of all my issues.

 

[1thouwow]

instead of submitting to a BM they rather eat p*ssy, fukk trannies, fukk white boys being called the n word during sex ....some not all....but many bw hate bm...thats fact

Bruh you're really delusional. I feel bad for you. You want a girl to submit to u and follow you blindly when you can't even to yourself you're a loser ass nikka that can't get a girl bc u lack any redeemable qualities and ain't accomplish shyt in life except make platinum threads on thecoli.com.

 

[Londilon]

I've seen black men who say they will treat women right turn around and dog out women that give them time because the women they want isnt giving them play.

 

[Ziggiy]

ANOTHER thread where sexually frustrated idiots come in here to vent about the evils of the black woman you punks should be ashamed of yourselves

 

[Dameon Farrow]

A lot of this relationship shyt is how you carry yourself guys. And not over thinking shyt. And not being entitled. And staying in your lane.

Thing is nobody wants to be bothered with any of that shyt. It leads to a lot of misery. People can pick up on bad vibes. Get some positivity in your life folks.