Some females force u to lay dem hands on em..right or wrong?

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So my lady nd I were havin a discussion amongst fam about puttin hands on a woman. I told them I understand why sum dudes put hands on a woman. Do I condone it, "fukk no"...Do I understand it sumtimes, "fukkin rite". Most women will na respect the g of a dude that doesnt flex on em at least once. Prior to my lady..I never put hands on a female except to yoke an ex up when she tried to steal me. When my present woman nd I got together, she attempted to get loose wit the hands on a few occasions which were admittedly my fault. Regardless...I forewarned her..."I dont put hands on females..so dont put hands on me." She grew up around 4 bros, 3 street nggas nd 1 one military. So she not soft. A time she heard some chatty patty shyt on me, which was proven to be falsified. I come in one night, she usually sleep this time, she up on the couch, robe on nd 9 rings on her fingers. She dont even wear rings. :patrice: I already felt it in the air. We go back n 4th, I try to deescalate the situation by leavin back out nd givin us a moment...she wont let a ngga leave...nd starts hookin off..so I grip her up so she cant swing...then go for the door. I turn around nd she hit me wit that "wake up call" to the back a the dome. :ohlawd: So now Im on ngga mode...I turn around nd undress her wit to rapid shots to both her outer thighs on some grown man shyt. She folds obviously nd starts cryin...I felt bad af afterwards...but til this day felt justified. Am I wrong???:dahell:
 

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This could've ended badly for you, she sound like the sort of bytch who'd sic her brothers on you just to serve you an L after you served her one. Best to vet these women carefully before you lay with them, there are PLENTY of ways a girl can work around the fact that she's physically weaker than you, not just brothers but side dudes and simps as well.

Stay safe outchea :salute:
 

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No, you were right for hitting someone smaller and not as strong as you.

Congrats big man!
 

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This could've ended badly for you, she sound like the sort of bytch who'd sic her brothers on you just to serve you an L after you served her one. Best to vet these women carefully before you lay with them, there are PLENTY of ways a girl can work around the fact that she's physically weaker than you, not just brothers but side dudes and simps as well.

Stay safe outchea :salute:
Facts..but this was in the initial stages of the relationship...1st yr n change. I vetted that out already nd we 6 yrs...no issues since. My point is she said its not justified for a man to hit a female nd I said "the fuk it aint sometimes" :russ: jus seen the sick her bros part on me too...I can handle my own bro:myman:
 
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No, you were right for hitting someone smaller and not as strong as you.

Congrats big man!
:mjgrin: I could understand if I open handed or 2 pieced her to the face but I had the restraint not to..nd again "I DONT CONDONE hitting women" but I do believe u have the right to defend urself...no?
 

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Keep your hands to yourself, I say.

ETA - If you are defending yourself against bodily harm, life is in imminent danger, protecting your child from physical abuse, etc...then hey the chips fall where they may in those kinds of scenarios.

But to strike a woman to assert your dominance over her or because she said something slick. No, and she should blow your head clean off. I would.
 
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So my lady nd I were havin a discussion amongst fam about puttin hands on a woman. I told them I understand why sum dudes put hands on a woman. Do I condone it, "fukk no"...Do I understand it sumtimes, "fukkin rite". Most women will na respect the g of a dude that doesnt flex on em at least once. Prior to my lady..I never put hands on a female except to yoke an ex up when she tried to steal me. When my present woman nd I got together, she attempted to get loose wit the hands on a few occasions which were admittedly my fault. Regardless...I forewarned her..."I dont put hands on females..so dont put hands on me." She grew up around 4 bros, 3 street nggas nd 1 one military. So she not soft. A time she heard some chatty patty shyt on me, which was proven to be falsified. I come in one night, she usually sleep this time, she up on the couch, robe on nd 9 rings on her fingers. She dont even wear rings. :patrice: I already felt it in the air. We go back n 4th, I try to deescalate the situation by leavin back out nd givin us a moment...she wont let a ngga leave...nd starts hookin off..so I grip her up so she cant swing...then go for the door. I turn around nd she hit me wit that "wake up call" to the back a the dome. :ohlawd: So now Im on ngga mode...I turn around nd undress her wit to rapid shots to both her outer thighs on some grown man shyt. She folds obviously nd starts cryin...I felt bad af afterwards...but til this day felt justified. Am I wrong???:dahell:
Yea you were wrong breh never hit a female. Its ways around this though....I put my girl in a full nelson until she calmed down shyt was actually kinda funny.

I told her :ufdup: next time you put hands on me im calling the police.

I wouldn't do it but it's funny every time she catch an attitude now I grab my phone on some
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That chick is cray but it sounds like she probably wanted to some angry demonic hate sex but you handled the situation all wrong. Be careful out there breh. A desperate simp will get wind of this, track your IP address and attempt a honor killing in her name. I'll put your username on my church's prayer list this week.
 

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Yea you were wrong breh never hit a female. Its ways around this though....I put my girl in a full nelson until she calmed down shyt was actually kinda funny.

I told her :ufdup: next time you put hands on me im calling the police.

I wouldn't do it but it's funny every time she catch an attitude now I grab my phone on some
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:scusthov: got u runnin to the phone all the time like some jawn. I cant do those as no man. Nd Ill address the situation nd we can move fwd or I would jus leave the relationship. Not livin like no female tho
 

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:scusthov: got u runnin to the phone all the time like some jawn. I cant do those as no man. Nd Ill address the situation nd we can move fwd or I would jus leave the relationship. Not livin like no female tho
It's a running joke we have :dwillhuh:
You actually hit a female though im not understanding what you're tryna justify here...

Edit: Nov 2016 poster :hubie:
 
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