Somebody Else Taking Care Of Your BF/GF

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Ladies, would you be okay with your current boyfriend taking care of his baby mother's financial needs (pays her rent, her car note, her bills, whatever she needs) because they have a kid together?

Fellas, would you be okay with your current girlfriend's baby father taking care of all of her financial needs (he pays her rent, her car note, her bills, whatever she needs) because they have a kid together?
 

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:what: fukk that. if your s/o needs to pay for or is getting their needs financed by someone else, you are with a loser. throw them in the bushes and start over....child support is one thing. completely financing the livelihood of another person is completely different. you will share that girl/guy eventually, if you aren't already sharing them....save yourself the headache. RUN!!!!
 

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Unless its legally required alimony or child support you should be cautious.

I made this thread because I just pink slipped a chick that tried to do this. She tried to tell me that I was insecure. Her baby father was doing too much. And he knows I was smashing, yet he was still simping. Dude even met me. But everytime she had a financial issue, he would come with his cape on. She had another kid that wasn't his and he was financing that too. I figured the broad was a user and told her to kick rocks. the fukked up thing is that she knows he still wants to be with her and just does him dirty. she won't have me in the rotation.

She had the nerve to tell me that most dudes are generous like that and that I'm an insecure man.
 

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I made this thread because I just pink slipped a chick that tried to do this. She tried to tell me that I was insecure. Her baby father was doing too much. And he knows I was smashing, yet he was still simping. Dude even met me. But everytime she had a financial issue, he would come with his cape on. She had another kid that wasn't his and he was financing that too. I figured the broad was a user and told her to kick rocks. the fukked up thing is that she knows he still wants to be with her and just does him dirty. she won't have me in the rotation.

She had the nerve to tell me that most dudes are generous like that and that I'm an insecure man.


He's prob still hitting

I'd cut myself out from that situation
 

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idk, if I knew she wasn't wifey material in the long run I probably wouldn't care. The less money I have to spend on the hoe, the better for me. Who am I to knock her hustle, because I'm not trying to fill that role. Think of the kids people, why cut off their money tree for your own selfishness.
 

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Deja vu thread...

If it aint court ordered, and they just breaking off bread for the sake of it. They fukkin
 

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Ladies, would you be okay with your current boyfriend taking care of his baby mother's financial needs (pays her rent, her car note, her bills, whatever she needs) because they have a kid together?

Fellas, would you be okay with your current girlfriend's baby father taking care of all of her financial needs (he pays her rent, her car note, her bills, whatever she needs) because they have a kid together?
i would try not to date a man with a kid and a baby mama. because its usually trouble. but if i was... only thing i would be ok with is him paying for child support or giving his son/daughter things/money directly. paying rent, bills, blah blah its her job to pay for all that. otherwise its just weird, he should just live with her then.
 
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