My goodness.
My ex cut her wrist and survived. From the outside looking in you would've thought most women would love to be in her position. Pretty face with no makeup, good credit, stack some $, didn't have to workout and pretty smile. But I saw her struggle and I read the writings in her journal. I'm legit sad right just typing this.
Even if you reach out to them at some point they will have alone time. That's when they battle themselves in their own heads.