Here's something from another website forum, talkbass.com so it's easy to Google the below post so I'm not going to hide it.
Basically, dude fooled around and told his girlfriend.
I thought it would be a fun read. Share your thoughts.
... So I have been with my current girlfriend for about a year, id say we live in the same apartment but not 'together'. She works all the time and so do I. Her days mine nights. Things have been strained lately. Well over the last week or so I was seeing a co worker after work, it was a platonic thing then, until the other night when, barring details, things got a bit heavy. I told my girlfriend about it this morning. She's increadibly hurt and I feel horrible for letting this happen. I've been cheated on before and I always told myself id never do it to anyone.
In addition to personal ramifications. The company is now aware of the incident and I have a phone meeting with our home office to decide what they're going to do with me. I don't know if staying at my current facility will be a good or bad decision.
I really am at a total loss for what to do. People's are saying just go back to your life before this co worker thing, try to hash it out with my girlfriend. I dunno if I can, if she can trust me or if I can trust myself.
I don't think I've ever put anything like this out on OT but say what you will, judgement or advice I'm open to all.
Cray? A little. My thoughts? He did it to himself. He made his bed and now he has to lie in it. He should break it up. That relationship ain't going anywhere but downhill. I kind of wonder what he means by heavy. Did he whip it out?
Basically, dude fooled around and told his girlfriend.I thought it would be a fun read. Share your thoughts.
... So I have been with my current girlfriend for about a year, id say we live in the same apartment but not 'together'. She works all the time and so do I. Her days mine nights. Things have been strained lately. Well over the last week or so I was seeing a co worker after work, it was a platonic thing then, until the other night when, barring details, things got a bit heavy. I told my girlfriend about it this morning. She's increadibly hurt and I feel horrible for letting this happen. I've been cheated on before and I always told myself id never do it to anyone.
In addition to personal ramifications. The company is now aware of the incident and I have a phone meeting with our home office to decide what they're going to do with me. I don't know if staying at my current facility will be a good or bad decision.
I really am at a total loss for what to do. People's are saying just go back to your life before this co worker thing, try to hash it out with my girlfriend. I dunno if I can, if she can trust me or if I can trust myself.
I don't think I've ever put anything like this out on OT but say what you will, judgement or advice I'm open to all.
Cray? A little. My thoughts? He did it to himself. He made his bed and now he has to lie in it. He should break it up. That relationship ain't going anywhere but downhill. I kind of wonder what he means by heavy. Did he whip it out?
