You want to aim high cuz once you settle for basic bytches youll get comfortable.
Most definitely you never want to sell yourself short, but at the same time you have to be honest with yourself. There are people who are 5'10 280lbs outta shape no career (just a job) that think they deserve a woman who is super model status, great looking, smart, funny, in shape, etc.
I know where I stand and honestly with my personality I am a person who is supposed to be alone. I can be in a relationship but rather than enjoy the journey, in the long run its a waste of her time and mine. I could have kids but the reality of the situation is i wouldnt be with the mother and personally im against children out of wedlock and split parent households but I respect the people that make it do what it do for the kids. For me its unfavorable circumstances and id just rather be alone and comfortable (which is selfish, but its my life
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