Spin: Have Black Men even attempted to talk to Nerdy Black Women?

[Phitz]

As a former “hood niqqa” back in high school black nerds and suburban bytches was the easiest to hit they like the thrill of being around us I’m not sure breh with no swag would have a chance with them either a lot of them Like cacs and Asians too

If he is a big fish or avg fish in his lane, he will.

If you are into the sport of curling you get curling "groupies"

if you're into archery you get archery "groupies"

If you're top 20 in ultimate frisbee you get those "groupies"

whatever lane/niche you're in you get your version of "groupies" that may not go for stereotypical "in crowd" dweller, and there are pretty people in these lanes/niches

we've all seen that.

You can't show up at the local downtown scooter racing league and just pull off of "swag" when everybody is there to cater to the scooter racers, not happening

 

[RoidJonesJr]

If he is a big fish or avg fish in his lane, he will.

If you are into the sport of curling you get curling "groupies"

if you're into archery you get archery "groupies"

If you're top 20 in ultimate frisbee you get those "groupies"

whatever lane/niche you're in you get your version of "groupies" that may not go for stereotypical "in crowd" dweller, and there are pretty people in these lanes/niches

we've all seen that.

You can't show up at the local downtown scooter racing league and just pull off of "swag" when everybody is there to cater to the scooter racers, not happening

what about the men without a lane/niche? who does he go after?

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

They always like pudgy white guys

 

[Phitz]

what about the men without a lane/niche? who does he go after?

maybe he hasn't found it yet, maybe he has to make one, maybe he has to wait until one shows up

most people have a lane somewhere, whether they find it or not is another topic

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

Hold up stop right there. You just dropped the most important gem on the topic.

Black culture now more than ever is monolithic af. A museum? Everybody got IG and Eventbrite, that dont make her nerdy. They throw parties at musuems now

A STEM convention, or say Comic-Con, very niche things and THAT is a nerd, when it’s a lifestyle. But that’s not just choosing someone bc you want a nerd. Y’all gotta actually mesh. Wtf you gon do with a comic-con full costume nerd if you yourself ain’t one?

It’s takes a very honest look in the mirror with this question: are you in the black monolith. More than likely you are, which means more than likely your dating pool is in it too. Them nerds ain’t for you bruh

Last part is Facts, I went through a ugly duckling stage and the women I got the most attention from were the average looking nerdy women


I hit my glow up a lil bit ago and they don’t pay me any mind now I look more like what the I guess stereotypical put together 24 year old black man looks like. NowI get more milfs (specifically white) and the gym shorties but I still got the nerdy Interests but they don’t fwm now


It’s not a lifestyle for me at all anymore and it makes sense cause like you said wtf am I gonna do with a woman who wants to go to every con and stay up until 2AM every day eating cheese balls watching cartoons/animate movies?

 

[Braman]

Last part is Facts, I went through a ugly duckling stage and the women I got the most attention from were the average looking nerdy women


I hit my glow up a lil bit ago and they don’t pay me any mind now I look more like what the I guess stereotypical put together 24 year old black man looks like. NowI get more milfs (specifically white) and the gym shorties but I still got the nerdy Interests but they don’t fwm now


It’s not a lifestyle for me at all anymore and it makes sense cause like you said wtf am I gonna do with a woman who wants to go to every con and stay up until 2AM every day eating cheese balls watching cartoons/animate movies?

Lol’d at chess balls. Yea man, a lot of folk talk about dating like it’s a video game, ‘ooh I like that’. And funny enough you CAN get that chick but smash a few times then what, you got somebody ain’t got nothing in common with

 

[feelosofer]

Let's be real women are women and Black woman nerds are attracted to the same thing other Black women are so the best looking ones are always going to get play and the less than attractive ones still have the standards.

I think also too and speaking as a Black nerd. A lot of brothers do not sell themselves in the dating market, I think that's an issue too.

 

[Dre God]

If you’re going to go after the Black female nerds you’re going to sacrifice in the looks department.

They’re gonna be obese, and smell like a super smash bros tournament.
If that’s acceptable to you then go head.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

The thing is that women take male attention for granted. If a woman is complaining about not attracting men it is because she is having trouble dating up or across. The vast majority of black women complaining about black men online got plenty of black men killing their DM's its just not the high value ones that they can brag about. Women take it personally when they get rejected/ignored cause they aren't used to it because of said simps. So they run online and black men bash like they don't even get a glance from brehs smh.

So if you had nothing but unattractive, overweight, 2 baby daddy having women interested in you, you’d give them a chance, and be satisfied?

Brehs expect women to not care about physical appearance, as if we’re giving women a chance, because she seems nice.

 

[CW_1991]

The cute ones get cuffed and trapped early.

I also imagine many of them probably steer more towards cacs.

 

[ViShawn]

I'm somewhat nerdy and haven't had problems with women digging my vibe. A lot like nerdy men

 

[FeverPitch2]

Nah. If she wasnt a devout Christian, no sex til marriage type...I def woulda locked her down and married her tbh. But at age 23 i wasnt going to wait 2+ years and be celibate …especislly cause i dont fukk with religion and her fam was religious

One way or the other the religion shyt woulda became an issue

Religious people tend to be the biggest freaks. That's common knowledge. Too much evidence to list.
What I'm telling you is from my own experience in the field.

The "I'm saved and waiting til marriage" thing is 9 times out of 10 just a test.
It's a fake out. They actually do wanna give it you.
Chicks say that and dudes who aint up on game run away.
If you are unfazed when she says that and continue your campaign, you eventually be knee deep in that ass. Long before marriage.
So what about her fam. If she was sucking the soul out you, do you think she would tell her family?
If you're advanced level and you really dig her, while you "wait" you can be knockin off something else.

My point being that "abstaining till marriage" thing is usually just talk to find out what your intentions are.

 

[Ohene]

Religious people tend to be the biggest freaks. That's common knowledge. Too much evidence to list.
What I'm telling you is from my own experience in the field.

The "I'm saved and waiting til marriage" thing is 9 times out of 10 just a test.
It's a fake out. They actually do wanna give it you.
Chicks say that and dudes who aint up on game run away.
If you are unfazed when she says that and continue your campaign, you eventually be knee deep in that ass. Long before marriage.
So what about her fam. If she was sucking the soul out you, do you think she would tell her family?
If you're advanced level and you really dig her, while you "wait" you can be knockin off something else.

My point being that "abstaining till marriage" thing is usually just talk to find out what your intentions are.

nah she was waiting til marriage
was a virgin and all that


theres a reason she got married so soon lol. she was like 24 years old

 

[KillerB88]

From what I have seen ,nerdy black, cosplay black women mostly worship Cac's.

I have even seen some practicing some kind of baby play

My best friend's girl is like this. Dated a white nikka for a decade before him. He said she tried to initiate sex with this weird baby voice etc. He said it was the biggest turnoff and asked her what the fukk she was doing She damaged AF but he doesn't want to see it. I've talked about her on here in the past.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Down here most nerdy black chicks i see usually with white dudes.