Y’all have some high expectations. I prefer natural hair, but I’m willing to work with a woman on her hair if she’s cool, and attractive. Women want to look good for men they like, so they could be open, but I’m still fine with reasonable weaves. But I can’t do lace fronts
I actually prefer women who wear makeup, and are feminine, as long as it’s not over the top. I don’t like those pointy cat nails, or butterfly wing fake eyelashes, but I can give her a chance to ditch that stuff if the personality and face are good.
I can even deal with a woman who is a little overweight, and I mean 20-30 lbs max, if she’s willing to work on it.
For all the talk about women having too high expectations, I think we can be unrealistic too.
I want slim chocolate with a bubble, but I can deal with minor things if she’s worth it. Physical appearance is easy to change, personality, and values aren’t.